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    Handling relationships while on course

    Flowers and cards for no reason are always appreciated. Technology advancements have come a long way.  Surely you'll have enough time to send good mornings, good nights and I love you's via text.  Skype is pretty awesome too.  And not too much time is expended. As for the "if you sleep with...
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    Benefits Cut...

    Thanks!  I misunderstood that then.  I thought there might have been another component besides rent. Yikes, this is gonna be a tight year to look forward to.  :o
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    Benefits Cut...

    Heck, I'd even sign that as the "Dependent"  Question, so if the incidentals and meals and such are being taken away, how much is the SE portion then?? 
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    Benefits Cut...

    My post was in response to a now dead issue!  Thank you again Armyvern for filling in the gaps. My point was the "wife" would obviously know there are some expectations when you marry a military member, period.  No judgment there!!  I completely get that everyone will do what they deem right...
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    Benefits Cut...

    About as much as you are missing the NEW statement. Sorry for putting in my one cent.  I'll just monitor the thread for further info.  Thanks.
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    Benefits Cut...

    R & Q being paid isn't him footing the bill either. ArmyVern, I wasn't questioning your morals.  And in case my username isn't specific enough, I'm NEW to this, I don't know nearly as much as you, so if I need correcting, kinder and gentler would be appreciated.  My comments don't intend any...
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    Benefits Cut...

    We can agree to disagree.  :)  What your policies and grey areas might be indicating and what the moral line would suggest, aren't the same. I am not overly familiar with all your P&P and have said as much. Switching topic a little, did anyone hear how that meeting went yesterday?  Or is...
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    Benefits Cut...

    PS - congratulations on your wedding.  :)
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    Benefits Cut...

    I call BS!  I might be new but even I know that's WRONG! I have a career and job that I've had for 24 years.  I am marrying my guy in 38 days.  He's been posted, I will move next summer sometime and guess what, I have made all the necessary arrangements to keep my job.  My understanding of...
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    Benefits Cut...

    I'm going to sound kinda cranky here, but no disrespect is intended towards anyone.  Just so that's clear first!! Situations like these are why the whole IR thing is being looked at and changed.  And of course the cuts shouldn't bother you, in cases like these, I don't think there should be IR...
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    Benefits Cut...

    If they did know since January, telling all of you wouldn't have changed anything.  Transfers still have to happen.  Posting messages would still have been sent.  Can you plan better whether the family comes or goes, whether you found out now or back in January???  I don't think so.  It also...
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    Benefits Cut...

    With all due respect here, your benefits aren't tied into tours and deployments and so on, you are rewarded for those appropriately as you do them.  What he knows is the here and now, not what you received or didn't receive before.  Also, if he is the only one currently earning a wage and...
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    Benefits Cut...

    According to another site, there is another canforgen to come out that's to explain how this last one will be applied. I asked if it was expected Aug. 31/12  ;D
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    Benefits Cut...

    I think the members who are using IR as intended shouldn't be penalized.  I do think the ones abusing it should have the benefits stripped as soon as possible.  This cut with little notice is going to affect some people legitimately. As for where they can cut some expenses, some of those per...
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