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  1. btrudy

    New Dress Regs 🤣

    I refuse to pay my own money to subsidize the Crown's failures. If the system is gonna give me stuff that doesn't fit well, then so be it. Fix the system, don't expect the member to pay themselves to solve the CAF's problems.
  2. btrudy

    New Dress Regs 🤣

    Hah, the base tailor shops can barely handle rank changes, expecting them to be able to get everyone actually wearing properly fitted clothing is a pipe dream.
  3. btrudy

    New Dress Regs 🤣

    I mean, yes, but you achieve that by having media sources with low levels of bias, not by having extremely biased sources on "both sides" of any issue. The Sun does not contribute towards a balanced media ecology. They're doing their damnedest to actively unbalance it..
  4. btrudy

    Are we that weak?

    No, it is not reasonable to react in that manner to what someone is. As opposed to the topic of discussion here, where people are reacting to the messages that people are displaying. When someone is actively trying to communicate something, figuring out what they're trying to say and reacting...
  5. btrudy

    New Dress Regs 🤣

    I'm definitely interested to see what happens with the mess dress rules. I think it's pretty clear that every mess is going to be expected / required to reformulate their dress rules to be gender neutral. But a number of messes really just say something like "shirt / tie or ladies equivalent"...
  6. btrudy

    New Dress Regs 🤣

    Maybe a light scolding if it's a one-time thing. If it becomes repeated, I'd say start at an initial counselling and work from there. Harassing people because you don't like the way they look is, of course, unacceptable. Textbook toxic work environment right there. 100% exactly the type of shit...
  7. btrudy

    New Dress Regs 🤣

    Well, I think it teaches them that standards are often ignored, or just that people quite frequently don't bother to look up the reference in question. Which frankly probably prepped them reasonably well for service in the CAF, since that shit happens everywhere. .
  8. btrudy

    New Dress Regs 🤣

    The default state might be "just how it is", but the fact that you haven't decided to change that default state to something else is indeed based upon your preference. There isn't a shade of natural occurring hair which exists which can't be replicated via the bottle. And currently, there's...
  9. btrudy

    New Dress Regs 🤣

    The one I'm most irate about was this one:
  10. btrudy

    New Dress Regs 🤣

    I can tolerate a lot of differences of opinion. People would prefer that short hair be mandated for men? Fine by me. People love military parades? Groovy. People think purple hair is unprofessional? That's just, like, your opinion man. People think it's perfectly reasonable to call...
  11. btrudy

    New Dress Regs 🤣

    Agree to disagree then I guess, I refuse to refrain from calling out bigotry for what it is. 2 wrongs don't make a right, but I strongly believe I'm in the right here.
  12. btrudy

    New Dress Regs 🤣

    Credibility? How about "don't pass a fault"? Aren't we professionally obligated to be calling out unacceptable behaviour? Bigotry has no place in the CAF, and I'll be damned if I'm going to refrain from using the word just because it makes bigots and their pals feel bad about themselves when...
  13. btrudy

    New Dress Regs 🤣

    When said opinion was "trans people should be afforded the same rights and opportunities as everyone else", yes, it is. There is no friendly difference of opinions when it comes to whether or not certain people deserve basic human rights.
  14. btrudy

    New Dress Regs 🤣

    There is no such thing as "in our private capacities" when it comes to hateful conduct.
  15. btrudy

    New Dress Regs 🤣

    That'd be the Paradox of tolerance at work, now wouldn't it? When someone's literally saying that we shouldn't bother recruiting trans people, because they come with too much baggage.... well, that is a clearly transphobic viewpoint, that should not be tolerated. Because the one thing...
  16. btrudy

    New Dress Regs 🤣

    It was intended primarily as an equity initiative. If it helps a little bit with retention or recruitment, that'd be great, but that was not the primary purpose.
  17. btrudy

    New Dress Regs 🤣

    And yet somehow women have managed for decades, I'm sure the dudes will figure it out too.
  18. btrudy

    New Dress Regs 🤣

    Now I'm convinced you're being deliberately obtuse. Tell me, if the rules were changed to mandate and neon green reverse-mohawks, would you be perfectly happy about adhering to that change? Be honest now. If doing that would irk you, then you're just as guilty as anyone else of desiring your...
  19. btrudy

    New Dress Regs 🤣

    Everyone has a preference. Everyone has some style of hair cut they like the best (which can of course change at times). The standards went from "shave it bald, everything goes" to "15 cm of length and up to 4 cm inches of bulk". And a lot of people's "ideal" preferred hair cut fell well within...
  20. btrudy

    New Dress Regs 🤣

    Again, wearing your hair the way you want it isn't the same thing as "attention seeking behaviour". Honestly, I think your problem is that you're making this all about you. You're viewing everything through the lens of how you'll react to someone's hair. People aren't trying to get a rise out...
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