BinRat55, chill out pal! The kid just asked a question and a perfectly reasonable one at that (little disappointed his unit didn't give him better instructions. By the way, there is NO order of dress in the CF called, "CADPAT," but I digress). I think your answer was a little over the top. For one thing, it's not YOUR uniform. You don't own it and as a bin rat, you should know that. It's the Queen's uniform (which is correct terminology as it is also correctly called property of the Crown). For another thing, how does one wear combat clothing disrespectfully? Improperly, maybe, but not disrespectfully.
The best advice given here is to wear civilian clothes to the venue and carry your kit with you. Arrive early and ask someone to help you. If they ask why you didn't wear it simply say that you weren't sure how. No one should give you a hard time for that. My guess is that unless they told you to bring everything, you will only need a shirt, pair of pants, T-shirt, socks (one black pair, one green pair), boots and beret. You may want the Gore-Tex jacket too if the weather isn't great. Hopefully though, your unit will get back to you and give you a better answer.
Even if you make a mistake and get yelled at, don't worry about it and don't take it personally. Basic Training is about making mistakes (and learning from them) and everybody gets yelled at, often for things that aren't their fault. Again, as long as you learn from it, it will have no long term affects on your career and will likely be forgotten shortly after it happens. The guy yelling at you today, may someday become your best friend.