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davey1822

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Hi I'm new here and just wanting to get some tips from some more experienced people here on how to deal with this situation I have.

I enrolled to be in the primary reserves starting on January 29th and finished everything from aptitude to PT by around April 27th.


Then after that I continuously called the recruiter to ask if he's recieved my file yet and each time he's told me that it hasn't been sent yet and he'll look into it. Well 3 days ago he told me that when he called the recruitment centre they told him to tell me "To make another appointment to redo my PT". Now I passed my PT the first time and was like "Ok I guess I'll do it again"

Then when I called the recruitment centre to schedule my PT they told me that since I already passed my first PT on april its good for another 6 months and that I don't have to do it again, so today I called the recruiter again and told him this. He said that he'll bring this up with his captain and basically ask "What the hell is going on".

Now I hoped to get into the programs for my reserve thing by September 29th, but this seemed impossible now, so then I hoped for the next date which is October 24th.

Then the recruiter told me that Oct 24th is also impossible since there are 14 other people's files which he recieved already and that my best hope would be to wait until November....

This kinda gave me the dagger in guts feeling which brought me very low. I just accepted what the recruiter told me and now I'm just waiting to pass time and see whats up with all this mess in my aplication.

So has anyone else had a simular problem? It has been like 5 months since I've completed everything and all and it's starting to become discouraging to me.

I've been on the brink of considering giving up on trying to join the reserves because of all this hassle, but for some reason theres a little bit of me inside that keeps telling me to just wait it out and get into the job that I really want to do. This hasn't helped with the fact that my mother yells at me nearly everyday that I'm a lazy teenager who's too lazy to find a job since most of my friends already got a part time job at places like McDonalds and NoFrills. My mom keeps saying things like "Your so lazy, all your friends can get jobs so easily at McDonalds and you sit on your ass everyday waiting for this stupid job".


Yea.. all I'm really looking for is just someone to talk to and help me out here with some tips. Thanks for listening.
 
What I would recomend is get a job at MCD just to hold you over till the reserves start up than you can quite there and do the reserves bit  it will help you with some extra pocket cash and keep the peace with your mom good luck with the reserves
 
Davey1822

You have stuck it out this long.  Its safe to say you want to really do this?  2 thumbs up from me.

Its a system.  That makes it not perfect.  Yes.  Yes.  Its not perfect.  I admit it is not.  Our Recruiting system.

However...the people that are in our military, well, they are the very best.  They learn, in our training, to become better people.  Better citizens.  Better Canadians.

I really hope you stick it out.

Me?  I have been in the CF since '89.  Both Regular and Reserve Force.  I bitch and complain about something every day.  Seems natural to me now.  ;D

If you REALLY want to flip Mcpattie's...follow your heart.

If you REALLY want to serve in the CF...follow your heart.

I promise you the wait will be worth it.

:salute:

Its nice to become a part of something as great, honourable and meaningful as the CF.  My fiancee is currently doing Basic Officer Training, and she loves her new family.  I think you would too!  Keep your stick on the ice.  It will happen!

thats my 2 cents.

:)
 
1822,

You have to remember that the Reserves will not be full time employment for you yet. The Reserves offers the opportunity to hold down a full time job and still enjoy the camaraderie of military life. Find yourself a job while waiting for the Recruiting System to process your application.

I should inform you of this now - there is a phrase in the military that describes your present situation, so you will have to deal with it as you see fit.

HURRY UP and WAIT!
 
Thanks guys. I'm considering asking my friend at MdDonalds (as an inside connection) to get me in, but it's kinda difficult as a few weeks ago my friend asked if I wanted to work at the McDonalds he worked at and I flatly turned it down in arrogance of waiting for a phone call from the reserves. Now even if I ask him theres gonna be some embarassment, but I guess I can give it a try.

Also I know the reserves is a part time job, but I'm also in my last year of high school and hoped to do the reserves for now, then maybe move on full into the CF after I graduate.



Also on a totally unrelated note, is it true that there are frequent fights and such (actual fists being thrown) by people in the reserves? My mom is the typical mother and really worries about me doing this job and keeps telling me that her friends tell her all these bad stories about people in the reserves.

My friends are somewhat supportive of me joining the reserves, but it's hard to get my family to support me. My only other family members which live in the same city as me are my uncle and aunt and they support me, but still my mom worries about this.
 
no fighting, just lots of late night streaking

good luck, hope the paperwork nausea doesnt deter you, ( it gets worse once you get in  ;D)

 
davey1822 said:
Also on a totally unrelated note, is it true that there are frequent fights and such (actual fists being thrown) by people in the reserves? My mom is the typical mother and really worries about me doing this job and keeps telling me that her friends tell her all these bad stories about people in the reserves.

Then you probably shouldn't consider playing hockey.  They fight there too  ;D.

People fight, so sure it happens.  It also happens in junior high, university, heck even the politicians go at it from time to time.  (Anyone remember Chretien taking out that guy that time?).

I think the key word I picked up in your question above was....stories

Tell your mom to not loose sleep over it, you are more likely to be attacked by a swarm of teenages on a Friday night then you are to slug it out with some other Reservist.  ;)

MRM
 
Finally I got the call today! I'm pretty happy right now lol.  :o

I also got a job at McDonalds a few weeks ago, but holding down two jobs shouldn't be a trouble, atleast not for the next 12 months because the corporal told me that there won't be any BMQ spots availble until after next summer so I was kinda relieved because I didn't want to do BMQ until next year's autumn or winter month since I still gotta finish up my last year of highschool plus the job at McDonald I have (In which I work about 3-4 days a week) so adding 1 extra day of work to my week shouldn't be affecting me too much.

Getting sworn in tommorow, the corporal said that it would last from 8:10pm to no later than 10:00pm. I'm so nervous, the ceremony is only 24 hours and 40 minutes away from now  :blotto:.

Anyways I'll be joining you guys in the CF soon.

:salute:  / :cdn:
 
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