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Hi all, I have a question for everyone. Why has everyone {except one girl in my platoon and another girl in my regiment} that Ive met that is in the military lost the ability to be polite? I realise I have limited time in the military and that I'm generalising here but I have known alot of serving and retired military members over my life. Generally I find the Veterans very polite and a very good learning and historical opportunity, I take pride in being able to talk with them and listen to their stories. . My beef is with the people that are in the military that are not polite at all. I generally hold doors open for women, the elderly, children and the odd man. Ive been told not to do it in uniform, its a sign of weakness. I'm also one to say please when I ask something above and beyond someones usual duties or when I ask a friend to do something etc and thank you when its done. I have never seen this in the military unless its a forced "Thank you sir!" I'm not the most proper person in the world and I know it, I'm FAR from it. I was just wondering why the simple things we learned when we were 2 years old like saying please and thank you have been disregarded? Just because a manual on simple manners wasn't issued with your C7A2 doesn't mean they shouldn't be used. IMHO using manners and being polite help alot, people think "what a great young man/women" and who knows maybe some younger child will want to grow up and be that "great young man/women in the CF"? If you believe being polite to someone is a sign of weakness I feel sorry for you, personally I think being impolite to people makes you look like an uncivilised cave man.
Steve
PS: This post was not targeted at anyone and is just my point of view in my experience. My apologies if anyone is offended or feels I have stepped out of my lane.
Steve
PS: This post was not targeted at anyone and is just my point of view in my experience. My apologies if anyone is offended or feels I have stepped out of my lane.