What ever happen to the days....

[Mediman14]

What ever happen to the days when soldiers looked after other soldiers? Unfortunately, I have witnessed to many people stabbing their "friends/ coworkers" in back to many times. For what reason? Just to get ahead, just to look awesome in the eyes of others, just to look like there s*** doesn't stink.  They always come out shinning, despite how many lies they tell. Nothing is ever done about it because it's always a he said/ she said game. It's frustrating with no ends.
  It doesn't matter if people confront other people, they just coward away from it. Tell your supervisor about it, "they just reply, it's your problem". It almost gets to the point that you have to record every conversation!

Sorry all, just venting.. Probably not the place for it!

 

[Teager]

The simple solution is don't worry about what others say or do. Focus on your job and be the best you can be at it. The type of people you describe do exist in every workforce but most people can see through those types and people that have to work with them go about there own business the best they can. Stop worrying and getting caught up in what others say and do/don't say and don't do. You will be much happier.

 

[mariomike]

It almost gets to the point that you have to record every conversation!

Although not a source of official CAF specific information, you may find this of general interest,

Am I allowed to record conversations at work?
http://www.theglobeandmail.com/report-on-business/careers/career-advice/experts/am-i-allowed-to-record-conversations-at-work/article21877154/

Re-read some of your previous threads. Would you say the situation is improving, worsening or remaining the same?

OP: Mediman14
Complaints/ Investigation 
http://milnet.ca/forums/threads/115644/post-1316982.html#msg1316982
2 pages.
Locked.

OP: Mediman14
Court Martial 
http://milnet.ca/forums/threads/118186/post-1355145.html#msg1355145

OP: Mediman14
Redress PER
http://milnet.ca/forums/threads/25156/post-1357332.html#msg1357332
"My particular unit has a lot of corruption that is never dealt with. atleast it seems that way!"

OP: Mediman14
Leadership 
http://milnet.ca/forums/threads/119708/post-1373863.html#msg1373863
"I don't need to be talked to in an aggressive tone."

OP: Mediman14
Severe Reprimand 
http://milnet.ca/forums/threads/121417/post-1406476.html#msg14064

OP: Mediman14
Advice needed 
http://milnet.ca/forums/threads/122517/post-1425963.html#msg1425963
"We all worked in positions that are "soul sucking". But when a position causes mental health issues, is it worth placing a grievance in to the CO?"

OP: Mediman14
The Better Approach
http://milnet.ca/forums/threads/122861/post-1431943.html#msg1431943
"Gone are the days of being direct and right to the point without someone taking offence."

CoC blocking memo to CO