captloadie said:
I was discussing how I thought the impact of this ruling was unfair to MSCs with an admin colleague of mine, when he said something that made me stop and think. He said,
"How is a married service couple different than anyone else who decides on IR?" My first response was that they have no choice in the matter, the military is forcing them apart. He then said something I had never put into context before:
"They both choose to have a military career, and must accept being separated as a consequence. Other spouses don't get the option to have a full career if they have to follow their military spouse around. If the civilian spouse wants a career and can't move with the member, how is that different than MSCs?"
And to be honest, when I thought about it in that context, he is right. MSC's are no different than normal couples who both have careers. Either one or the other has to make the sacrifice, or they have live with the new regulations being brought in.
However, I do agree with Vern in that if everyone else is being given until 1 Feb to reevaluate their situation, so should MSCs.
I too have heard this and I will tell you how we are different:
I 100% agree that the exengencies of the service
must come first, and that MSCs will be posted together
if possible. That's the rule.
We
are different. With a MSC, career managers have found their answer to filling positions in the middle of the winter when someone in a must fill position CFRs or releases. They can, and do, post either of us to that required location in the middle of Feb simply because we can not say "no" or run to a social worker and get a "family must stay together or be compassionate for reason X" status assigned. And, to be sure, the CF is the beneficiary of BOTH of our employment - not just one member of our family. They have TWO members of this family they can, and do, send anywhere, anytime, for whatever. No other family in the CF is going to move/break up their family in the middle of the winter --- one quick trip to a social worker would put a stop to that. We ... are the perfect couple to mitigate that as we can not do SFA about it occuring to us unlike every other family in the CF. Us MSC who are posted apart are EXACTLY the people who DO do our jobs IAW CF policy, whereever, whenever and for whatever; we are posted apart precisely because we are both doing our jobs exactly as the CF requires of us both. A pers with a civ spouse is not in that category.
As well, according to the rule, if they must post us apart, then they must; I agree.
BUT, "must" they post us apart when he is posted to Pet and they are telling me they can not post me there ( a Sup tech!!??) when 2 pers same rank and trade as I am have been sitting in Pet 12+ years? Nope, it's not that they MUST post us apart, it's that the other 2 12+ers are getting to remain static for at least another year at my families expense, once again because I am 1/2 of an MSC and can not do SFA about it.
And, is it really "service requirements" dictate it be so when they send me to Borden instead ... and the guy living just up from me is also there and posted apart from his spouse because he is also 1/2 of a MSC ... he and my husband are same trade and rank as each other. His wife and I are both Sup Tech MWOs. His wife and my husband were both posted in Pet. He and I were both unaccompanied in Borden. How the fuck that does make sense? How is that cost effective to the CF? Yet, someone wants to argue that "service requirements made it so?" My ass.