Hi all,
I have one important question to ask. I am a relatively new Captain (about 3 yrs) and there is a member of the CF who came to me and confided that he just found out that he is HIV Positive! He and his wife are struggling with the news. He found out through a civilian anonymous testing site in his region.
I know the member because he worked for me for a short while and because our wives are very good friends. He confided this to me because he does not know what to do next and he is scared of what will happen to him personally and professionally. Nowadays, HIV positive people can remain healthy for 10-15 years before developing AIDS symptoms.
I have already made sure that he and his wife are receiving care and counselling through the agency that provided the anonymous testing.
I also plan on convincing him to go see a CF doctor soonest so that he can start his treatment to help him from delaying the onset of AIDS. I know that he will contact the CF doctors soon, if for anything, to prolong his life.
However, before I can sit down with him to discuss this particular issue, I'd like to know if anyone knows what happens to members who are diagnosed HIV positive. Are they medically released? Will the CF drop them like a hot potato? The member has 16 years in, will he be allowed to finish his contract? Will there be restrictions on his career? Who will know beside the medical staff that he is HIV positive? Will his CO be informed the minute he contacts the MIR? Whatabout when his treatment start, who will know?
Also, any personal experience of this happening in your unit/community? There are still a lot of fear/Misunderstanding toward HIV positive people. I will admit that even myself don't feel to comfortable with it and am a little scared altough I quickly brushed up on my knowledge of HIV/AIDS.
Obviously I am taking this channel because I am a little worried of what would happen if I started asking my peers and my superiors these questions. I do not want to have this member thrown into having to disclose this information in a setting that would be confrontational for him. I'll make sure he gets the help he needs soonest but I'd rather see him do it in his own terms and at the moment of his choosing.
I am not starting this thread to get a discussion started on individual sexual, drug, and other bad habits. The fact is that whatever caused his HIV (Drugs, tattooing, swingers party or whatever) are not the issue here. He is already paying dearly and a lecture won't help one bit. What I am looking for is hard info on what happens to a member who becomes infected by HIV. Please try to stick to this particular issue in your response.
Anyone has had experience with this?
I have one important question to ask. I am a relatively new Captain (about 3 yrs) and there is a member of the CF who came to me and confided that he just found out that he is HIV Positive! He and his wife are struggling with the news. He found out through a civilian anonymous testing site in his region.
I know the member because he worked for me for a short while and because our wives are very good friends. He confided this to me because he does not know what to do next and he is scared of what will happen to him personally and professionally. Nowadays, HIV positive people can remain healthy for 10-15 years before developing AIDS symptoms.
I have already made sure that he and his wife are receiving care and counselling through the agency that provided the anonymous testing.
I also plan on convincing him to go see a CF doctor soonest so that he can start his treatment to help him from delaying the onset of AIDS. I know that he will contact the CF doctors soon, if for anything, to prolong his life.
However, before I can sit down with him to discuss this particular issue, I'd like to know if anyone knows what happens to members who are diagnosed HIV positive. Are they medically released? Will the CF drop them like a hot potato? The member has 16 years in, will he be allowed to finish his contract? Will there be restrictions on his career? Who will know beside the medical staff that he is HIV positive? Will his CO be informed the minute he contacts the MIR? Whatabout when his treatment start, who will know?
Also, any personal experience of this happening in your unit/community? There are still a lot of fear/Misunderstanding toward HIV positive people. I will admit that even myself don't feel to comfortable with it and am a little scared altough I quickly brushed up on my knowledge of HIV/AIDS.
Obviously I am taking this channel because I am a little worried of what would happen if I started asking my peers and my superiors these questions. I do not want to have this member thrown into having to disclose this information in a setting that would be confrontational for him. I'll make sure he gets the help he needs soonest but I'd rather see him do it in his own terms and at the moment of his choosing.
I am not starting this thread to get a discussion started on individual sexual, drug, and other bad habits. The fact is that whatever caused his HIV (Drugs, tattooing, swingers party or whatever) are not the issue here. He is already paying dearly and a lecture won't help one bit. What I am looking for is hard info on what happens to a member who becomes infected by HIV. Please try to stick to this particular issue in your response.
Anyone has had experience with this?