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[Excolis]

K short story i stopped to help a pregnant women that got hit by a car and my GF, decided to make out with another guy because she thought i was disappointing her again.  she flips out when i ever have to go on a weekend exercise, or a dinner.  i invite her to the dinners, but she hates anything to do with the army and thinks that war is bad, and there should be no army.... (damn tree hugger)    we went to a wedding the other night and she didn't want to have a good time, so i was dancing with a friends GF and got all pissed at me...  what is the plan of attack?  what should i do? ??? ??? ???

 

[nbk]

She sounds like too much trouble. I'd say dump her. If she is really really really hot or rich or something then just put up with her crap, or ignore her when she starts getting on your case.

 

[Bograt]

EJECT EJECT EJECT

There are other fish in the sea, unless you are from Newfoundland.

 

[muskrat89]

Kick her a55 to the curb

 

[Bruce Monkhouse]

Really make her mad, go make out with the same guy as her.

 

[Michael Dorosh]

Really make her mad, go make out with the same guy as her.

This is the only sensible advice I've seen in this thread yet.

 

[NMPeters]

I'm still trying to figure out what the pregnant lady has to do with the GF making out with another guy.

 

[Excolis]

i was helping the pregnant lady, and i couldnt make it to the bar to meet with my GF.  she says i should never stop to help anyone, i could get hurt.  so she was mad that i didnt meet her

 

[Lexi]

I'd say dump her.   :-\
I mean, she should be PROUD you stopped to help a pregnant lady.
If she's a hippy and you're a soldier, then you're bound to clash. It just won't work.

Face it - it's not working.
If she really did care she'd understand your reasons, and forgive you.
If she's made out with another guy... o) don't hesitate to kick her to the curb. You don't deserve to be backstabbed like that.

All the best,
Lex

 

[beach_bum]

She sounds pretty immature in my opinion.  Perhaps you should just let her grow up.  Maybe one day she'll become a little less self-centred and spoiled.  I wouldn't hold my breath on that happening any time in the near future though.  :
The making out with another guy thing.......well, anyone who really cares about another person would never do something like that.  Cut your losses...you'll meet someone better. 

 

[Jarnhamar]

HAS.  This is the only part of your thread that i really paid attention to.

and my GF, decided to make out with another guy

Why are you still with her??? Are you waiting for face herpies or something?
Your not a love struck teen ager dude. Your an adult. Go over to your girlfriends house, take anything of yours thats there, drop of anything of hers that's at your place and cut ties with her.  Your girlfriend sounds like a real idiot and it makes you look more than a little foolish for giving her the time of day, let alone letting her walk all over you.  

The sad thing is, and 99% of the time i'm right about this shit, is that oblivious to EVERYONES advice here your going to stay with her (after making some poor excuse why) and let her walk all over you more until shes sleeping with someone else (if she isn't already) or she's selling your stuff or taking money out of your bank account and spending it. You know money you make from the military that she hates but isn't above spending. You'll come back and say "damnit guys, you were right"

 

[Ex-Dragoon]

i was helping the pregnant lady, and i couldnt make it to the bar to meet with my GF.   she says i should never stop to help anyone, i could get hurt.   so she was mad that i didnt meet her

Sorry HAS but she sounds like a very selfish person (ME ME ME ME is about her). If I ignored someone who needed my help then I am less of a person. A person putting themselves before someone in distress like your GF is even less of a person. Sorry dude, I say dump her as well. If you still on the fence ask yourself this...how would you feel if that woman miscarried? How would you feel that if all it would have taken is you helping this woman to prevent a miscarriage? You have to do some serious self evaluation of yourself and of your relationship.

 

[Fishbone Jones]

Waaaayyyyy too high maintainence for someone in your position. She belongs with some 85 year old rich guy who just needs her to look good with him. Get rid of her schnell before she takes you down the river and gets everything you own, including your bank account. You should really ask the guys in your mess about this, enough of them have been there already.

 

[childs56]

Get rid of her. do it in a polite manner and do not be immature about it. If you don't cut your losses now then it will be even worse later on, not to mention almost impossible as you will be so in love with her for what ever reason. As for the hippy chick army guy it works great if you both understand what each others beliefs are and respect each other. plus hippy chicks are awesome to hang out with, hmmm hippy chicks. good luck and hope you make the right choice

 

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[Jarnhamar]

Well if she was hot before shes hot road pizza now 

 

[Excolis]

that  was a good one.    i know i should get rid of her. i am just a pussy when it comes to that stuff.  we were together for two years, and i thought she was the one, but she started to change.. now i think i am holding on cause int he back of my mind i hope she changes back.. i don't know....  we will have to see.  i have not met or talked to one person that says to keep her around.

 

[Lexi]

we were together for two years, and i thought she was the one, but she started to change..

How long ago did these 'changes' take place?
:-\

Lex

 

[George Wallace]

i know i should get rid of her. i am just a ***** when it comes to that stuff. we were together for two years, and i thought she was the one, but she started to change.. now i think i am holding on cause int he back of my mind i hope she changes back.. i don't know.... we will have to see.

Sorry....you're weak.....When you do get the call and head off for your BQ and SQ, with whom and where will she be?  Do it now.  You've been told.

GW

 

[Jarnhamar]

i know i should get rid of her. i am just a pussy when it comes to that stuff.

You shouldn't ask for advice if your not willing to listen to it. God thats one of my biggest pet peeves.

"ohh my boyfriend cheated on me what should i do?"
*Break up with him*
"ohhh but i can't i love him"
*You've only dated him 2 weeks*
"ohh you don't know him like i do, maybe he'll change"
*Maybe your an idiot and you'll be walked on the rest of your life.

How are you going to jump out of planes and kick some ass if your girlfriend won't let you?
You'd make a better navy captian because it looks like your going down with the ship my friend.