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No touching for Cdn. newlyweds on Kandahar base

CTV.ca News Staff
 
Updated: Sun. Apr. 30 2006 11:20 PM ET

Most newlyweds are notorious for public displays of affection, but this Canadian couple is not even allowed to hold hands.

Trina and Billy XXX are stationed at the Canadian military base in Kandahar, which has a strict policy against fraternizing with the opposite sex, even when it is your spouse.

"We knew the rules coming into it," said Trina, who arranges travel for the troops.

The XXXX, who got married in January and deployed to Afghanistan within weeks, have had to live separately and are not allowed to even touch each other.

"It's just a policy we've always had in place, be it for morale or other reasons," said Billy, who lives a 20-minute walk away from his wife.

There is no fraternizing, flirting or sex on base, according to Canadian military policy.

"If I do get caught fraternizing, it's immediate dismissal and I get sent home," Trina told CTV.

Billy, the Brigadier-General's tactical commander, would more likely receive a fine.

The two arrange to meet once a day through friends, but they never touch.

"Sometimes I guess you can say a lot without really saying anything," Trina said. "And we're getting good at that."

Unlike the Canadian policy, the U.S. military allows married couples to live together.
"I'm rooming with an America, so he's giving me the gears because their policy, you know, if they're married they'll make accommodations for couples," Billy said.

But Billy isn't fighting for the same rights.

"Our policy is our policy."

Although the XXXX find the artificial separation difficult, they also feel luck to both be stationed on the same base together.

"Other couples, you know are here without their spouses." Trina said.

With a report from CTV's Sarah Galashan
 
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Bet you $5 that if DND permitted this in Kandahar, ala US Army, the CF would be shopping for another base when the 1st Canadian (male) same sex couple bunk together.
 
Lets be blunt...  the sex rule is a deterent, but some people were still getting action on deployment.  I had first-hand witness testimony from night ops troops with thermals that the rule was ignored in VK, and I know it was ignored by troops and officers during my Honduras and Germany deployments (both after 1998, hmmmm when did that rule come into affect again?).

How about Kandahar? Everyone succesfully hanging on until their 96ers come up in Thailand?
 
One of our Troops Just got back from a Tour in Isreal.....

apparently you were looked at funny if you DIDNT have a shack rat there......

talk about dont ask dont tell...... well more like just dont get caught..... though im sure the operational Tempo in Golan Made it a little easier to get away with it then the Tempo in Kandahar....

cheers
 
Wow talk about some self-discipline...self-restraint.
I think it is great that they are there together...constraints included.

HL
 
I don't think this is new, in 93 there was a medic and his wife on the same tour/same base and I seem to recall him telling me they couldn't get with the birds and the bees.........
 
Forbidden fruit tastes better though, doesn't it? >:D
 
Hot Lips said:
I think it is great that they are there together...constraints included.

I think that's the point, they can't be using even the furry handcuffs......pardon?........ohhh CONstraints. I thought you'd said restraints.

nevermind  ;D
 
Octavianus said:
Forbidden fruit tastes better though, doesn't it? >:D

Maybe.  Maybe not.  I have not yet met a woman (other than 9er Domestic) who is worth half of everything I own.
 
Haggis said:
Maybe.  Maybe not.  I have not yet met a woman (other than 9er Domestic) who is worth half of everything I own.
I have not yet met a woman who is worth losing 9er Domestic.

Although, she's been given fair warning: I meet Alyssa Milano, all bets are off!
 
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