You guys all realize though that with that pay raise, the R&Q is goinup (for those ROTP at RMC) so the take-home is going to remain the same as it's been for the past 10 yrs, right? ;D
BF -- I'd have felt sorry for your expenses, except that you included the sword, which really is a nice-to-have, and not a must-have. However, I do understand that you will be facing the cost of framing (3x if an engineer, 2x otherwise), association expences (not a must-have but a really-nice-to-have), and the grad weekend expenses, which can get VERY expensive if you have a big family. All of this will add up quickly and I wouldn't be surprised if you find yourself more than a few thousand in debt after that weekend.