X-Mo_1979's View On Refusing Posting.
Anyone with more than 6 years in the army has had "The" posting.The one everyone talks about every APS.I have just finished my 3 years at "the"posting.Was I happy there?Nope.However I had a clear choice.Take the posting or try to fight it and be a selfish idoit who was going to bone someone else (who guess what...doesnt want that crappy posting either).So what did I do?Went there and looked for the lighter side of that posting.Every posting has a goodside.And honestly when I was getting posted back to my unit I realised that there were aspects of that posting I would certainly miss.
Some troops say certain postings are career deaths.Lies.I find most soldiers kill their own careers with their attitudes.Now I didnt become allied supreme commander,however I did get some career progression due to having a positive attitude and looking FORWARD in my career to make sure I made myself desired (trade qualifications/work ethic) to return to my previous post.
Dual Service Couple.Now armyvern I mean no mallice by saying this.However I know you suck it up and get posted away:
TOO BAD.
Me and my wifey were a service couples.We could not be posted together so we decided that one of us would release.She did.
Long IR postings,TOO BAD.One of you get out.
we once had a CO's hour and one Mcpl stood up and asked the CO what they were going to do for couples who were both deploying at the same time.Honestly I forget what he has said in response,but guess what...TOO BAD.
I dont care if Sally and Billy don't see their parents for 9 months,I really don't.You make over 100,000 dollars a year,your both adults,FIGURE IT OUT!You as service couples decided to make 100,000 plus a year and stay in.You as service couples decided your careers were important to you.If doing the job of a soldier (I.E Deploying) or going away does not work for you.Release.
I could make 100,000 plus, however me and my service spouse couldnt make it work for us.We did not want to have our kids with family for 9 months so one of us released.
"My wife is making 200,000 grand as a nurse in Edmonton.You CANT post me!"
wrong.
When the hell did the career manager have to be Dr.Phil as well?
As my career manager told us this year.
"So you are posted.If you refuse your posting,your COS quickly becomes your release date."