Dog said:
Sorry to give this one a shove back in the direction of NCM's... I've come across a few references in the media of "MCpl bloggins who has been in the military for 14 years.".... am I staring at a bleak career of little mobility? The prospect of being a Mcpl after 14 years in the infantry is bloody discouraging to say the least... when I see things like that it gets my mind racing about what else I could do with my life after my VIE.
I joined excited at the possiblity of starting a career of possibility am I kidding myself?
Perhaps the viewpoint of a recently retired NCM, then, regarding NCMs. (No offence to my Air Force and Navy brethren, but I'll speak as a soldier - I assume something similar is true in your own services)
When I first joined, a bunch of us young Ptes were sitting around, discussing the best way to get promoted. Our crusty old RSM overheard us, snorted, and delivered this little piece of advice:
"You can only get promoted six times in this man's army, and if any of YOU lot think you'll see all six then you're in for another think. If the only day you're going to be happy is the day you're promoted then most of you are only going to have one or two happy days in your entire careers. Stopping worrying about things you can't control and get the f**k on with it"
He was right.
If you are in the CF for the love of soldiering (no matter your trade) you will instinctively do those things that are required for promotion - out of the pure love of it. You will expand your professional and trade knowledge on your own, you will push yourself to new limits physically, you will assist others in doing the same, you will cheerfully assist your superiors in achieving their aims, and you WILL be noticed doing all these things. You just won't care about the notice, and your subsequent promotions will come as a surprise to you. When you eventually retire (no matter your rank on retirement), you will remember your service with pride - you will remember all the things you accomplished, and all the good times you had. You'll use the skills and experience you gained in the military and get onto to something else just as productive and rewarding. You'll remember your life as being full, exciting, and enjoyable, and you'll look forward to the rest of your life as a civilian with equal fervour.
If you are in the CF to "plot your way to the top" you will be waiting for a promotion after doing "all the right things". If it doesn't come you will back up and try something else, you will repeat this process again and again ad nauseum until you DO get promoted - then you'll start all over again plotting for the next rank. In all this plotting and striving you will be watching your peers, wondering how
THAT thudf**k got promoted ahead of me, when
everybody knows that I'm better. You will begin to believe that the system is corrupt, the Officers, Sr NCOs, and WOs are idiots, that there is a "Regimental Mafia" that protects their "Golden Boys", and you WILL become extremely bitter. When you eventually retire (no matter your rank on retirement) you will remember your service with bitterness, you will remember all the things you weren't allowed to do, and all the lousy duties you had to pull. You won't think that what skills you acquired in the military are of any use on civvie street (you'll be wrong, but you'll still think it), you'll get yourself into some dead end drone type job, and the cycle of bitterness you created in the military will be transferred to your new civilian career. You'll remember your life with bitterness, regret, and disillusionment.
It's your call - I'd suggest that if your only reason for joining the military is to "get ahead", and you define "getting ahead" as being promoted, then you look elsewhere. If you aren't in this for the love of soldiering, then don't get in. This isn't a "job" you are contemplating - it
IS a lifestyle, even if that has become a cliche.
Good luck to you, in whatever you decide to persue.