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Using padres as social workers?

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As someone who is more than happy to identify himself as an atheist I think that anything that can bring the forces into the present and away from the "Onward Christian Soldiers" mentality is a good thing. The latest stats I can easily find are from 2001 - % of Canadians who were non-Christians - 28, % of Canadians with no religion (atheists, humanists, etc) - 16.

The forces need to stop using padres as cheap substitutes for social workers and make junior officers develop the counselling skills that are supposed to be part of their jobs. It is too easy to "send him to the padre" and make him someone else's problem. For truly serious problems, professional social workers or psychologists should be available. This isn't the 17th century anymore.
 
I happen to agree with most of SigPig's thoughts here.  As a non religious person I have never felt comfortable speaking with a padre about any matter.  I didn't share their beliefs to discuss religion and I certainly didn't want to speak to them about a personal problem.  I have indeed spoken to a padre on one occasion and found that most of his advice was to the extent of "god will lead you my daughter" type mentality.  Now, before you get on your high horses, maybe I found the only padre in the forces that thought that way but it did, in fact, happen. 

Another question, what is the extent of availability of true social workers/psychologists in the forces and are they really members or civilians who work for DND?

 
Before I begin, I'll add the disclaimer that I am a practicing Christian....

sigpig said:
As someone who is more than happy to identify himself as an atheist I think that anything that can bring the forces into the present and away from the "Onward Christian Soldiers" mentality is a good thing.

With all respect to your viewpoint, why do you think it would be a positive?

I'll accept your point that, in a multicultural society, a "Christian" mindset may not fill the needs of all CF personnel. However, I'll counter by pointing out that a "secular" mindset will serve even less.... Religious beliefs are ALWAYS going to be a constant in society. Now and in the future, the CF will have a significant number of personnel who hold religious beliefs. Therefore, moving towards a secular / atheistic mentality might be a bad thing, for the following reasons:

1. Attention to a soldier's spiritual, as well as emotional, psychological, and physical health, will help make a more fulfilled - and therefore more motivated and effective - individual. If a religious soldier knows his/her organization values and supports his/her spiritual welfare, the same way it values his family's health, for example, he/she will be more comfortable and will more readily identify with that organization. Therefore, spiritual support is a key element of caring for soldiers, and by extension, effectiveness.

2. While Western culture may be moving away from religious belief, this is most definitely NOT the case in the rest of the world. Africa is increasingly Muslim and Christian. One of the fastest-growing Christian areas of the world is Southeast Asia. More Muslims live in Indonesia than anywhere else. Underground churches in â Å“secularâ ? Communist countries like China and Vietnam are thriving despite opposition. And with our birthrate declining and our increasing reliance on immigration from these communities, religion is more likely to have a resurgence in Canadian culture than to disappear.

3. Therefore, we may rest assured that any future conflicts Canadian troops wind up entangled in will have a religious element â “ look at Yugoslavia, Kosovo, Afghanistan, Iraq, etc. A healthy, open, and supportive attitude towards religious matters in the CF will make the organization as a whole, and individual soldiers in particular, more prepared to deal with these situations. A Canadian soldier with religious beliefs will already have something in common with Afghani or Serbian locals that they can build on for operations.

4. And dedicated moves away from religious practice and belief run the risk of removing absolute ethical and moral standards from our framework of values. If morality becomes merely relative to the changing cultural norms of the moment, might it not make it harder to uphold codes of conduct and ethical behaviour? I don't doubt that atheists (such as yourselves) hold strong moral convictions and abide by them, but aren't those values rooted in the religious heritage of our civilization? Look at the last few regimes which decided that religion was unnecessary and useless to public discourse â “ regimes like the Soviet Union and China have done at least as much damage and harm as religion taken too far, like the Inquisition or theocracies like Iran.

sigpig said:
For truly serious problems, professional social workers or psychologists should be available. This isn't the 17th century anymore.

Padres, as ordained ministers, receive formal instruction in interviewing and counseling. As they have to spend a certain period practicing in ministry and serving the needs of real parishioners before joining the CF (I think it's two years of ordained ministry), to suggest that padres have neither the experience nor the training to deal with such problems is wrong. They don't have to be psychiatrists, but in terms of giving a soldier someone to hear them out, to understand them, and to aid them in resolving their problems, a padre's knowledge and experience should be more than adequate for most cases. This will also ease the workload on the dedicated social workers and psychologists, saving their valuable time for serious cases that only they can address.

And try not to dismiss that role as "17th century." Pastoral care, at least in the Christian context, has a tradition as old as Christianity itself. That's a lot longer than the relatively new practices of social work and psychology.

So let's keep the padres involved in this field, give them additional training to make them more effective, and bring in more chaplains to cater to different faith groups. And make secular counseling more widely available for personnel who might prefer that option. But imposing a "one-size-fits-all" secular solution by confining the padres to simply leading Sunday services won't solve any problems. There's no 100% solution to be found here.

All right, let me have it....   ;D
 
Guardian,

Although I am an athiest also, I don't think it would be a bad idea at all to keep the padres. BUT, people shouldn't be forced to use them as thier only emotional guide in difficult times. That's like second hand smoke, just because your religious and there's only a padre to speak with, the guy who is muslim or not religious at all has to talk to him also? Not fair, hence why you cannot smoke in anywhere but public places now days and almost no where indoors unless it's separated. Why should others have to suffer the effects? That's what it would be for me if the only person I could seek out to talk to about my problems was deeply religious. I don't want to hear thier generic, "God loves you and he will see you through my son"... That doesn't help, at all. For someone not religious it isn't honestly fair that they only have religious answers. In fact I as an athiest wouldn't go to a padre or even bother seeking help internally if that's the case and only answer. I'd pay for outside professional help if I really believed I needed it. Then try and see if the Forces would reimburse me later or something.

Just my opinion as an athiest. I think they should have religious and non-religious people involved.

Joe
PS> Being an athiest doesn't mean your against religion in any way shape or form, just means you don't believe in any religion. Too many people view athiests as "aggressors" against religion when in fact, they could care less what you believe in honestly. If someone proclaims to be an athiest and also hate religion and say it should be abolished, that's thier own personal opinion.
 
Joe, most Padres don't give you the "God loves you" line, on the few instances I've seen what padres do I've noticed that unless the person they were counselling subscribed to that they took a much more temporal/real-world/psychological approach to helping them.
One of the common traits of mosts religious leaders is that they have an extremely calming tone and manner regardless of who they talk to and have for the most part, seriously, heard it ALL so nothing is beyond ther scope.
But I don't doubt you'll get a religious spin if you listen long enough.

I don't see why we can't retain the role of the padre as a counsellor and spiritual leader (as it seems the majority of Canadians, hence the forces, still identify with a religion) and have Jr. Officers develop more counselling skills to deal with non-religious members.
"Send him to the padre" does seem like a cop-out, but if the person is willing it doesn't seem awful that they should be allowed to speak with the padre instead of the JR's.
 
Recruit Joe said:
I don't think it would be a bad idea at all to keep the padres. BUT, people shouldn't be forced to use them as thier only emotional guide in difficult times.

Recruit Joe, I actually agree with you:

Guardian said:
So let's keep the padres involved in this field, give them additional training to make them more effective, and bring in more chaplains to cater to different faith groups. And make secular counseling more widely available for personnel who might prefer that option.

I probably should have been a little more clear (it's hidden at the bottom of my essay... :-[) If someone with no religious beliefs wants access to a secular social worker, then absolutely they should have it. (Keep in mind, though - that social worker might have religious beliefs too!) But a padre should be able to counsel someone outside of their faith group - given the statements here, perhaps more training for them is necessary, hence my suggestion. A good padre should be able to connect with anyone, not just his fellow Baptists/Catholics/Muslims/whatever. I'm disappointed that you and others feel uncomfortable going to a padre... in my mind, that's a failure on the part of the individual chaplain. 

And you're right - there is a difference between the average atheist/agnostic, who holds his/her beliefs privately and lets others believe as they choose, and the more aggressive anti-religious types out there who would like to stamp out any and all religious matters they see in public or private. There are extremists on either side.... One cannot convert to any faith (or lack thereof) unless by personal choice, and most here in this forum, I expect, would respect and support anyone's right to believe (or not believe) anything they want, and to be able to express that belief. After all, that's what we're ultimately here for....

Che's suggestion sounds like the best all-around solution ...
 
I agree that Jr. Officers would benefit from counselling skills training, (as hard as it would be to fit them with yet another course)but as for it "supposed to be part of their jobs", this comes as a bit of a surprise to me.  I was under the impression that this is the job of all supervisors, regardless of rank...to be available to their personnel.  If unable to assist the individual(s), be aware of the paths available for the personnel to follow.  In fact, unless the individual had special training or experience in a field of which I'm having difficulty, the last person I think I'd want to see is a 2Lt/Slt.  No offence meant to any Jr. O's, just giving my opinion.  It is quite possible that I misunderstood the meaning of this, however.

I have seen too many "send him to the padre" scenarios.  And Sigpig is right that this has become so common, it's almost like a catchphrase.  Unfortunately, these people also get easily labelled, as we are all familiar with the "MIR Commando" term.  

There is, in fact, social workers available (but not easily accessible), and I know that the MFRC continues to improve and perform magnificiently for members and dependants (that's another subject).  As well, many of our Medics and PA's (especially in isolated areas - ships, alert, overseas ops) are excellent at making themselves available to sit down and talk with, a fact that many don't realize.  

Ultimately, we must concentrate further on this whole subject.  We are becoming backlogged with multiple problems, and not enough ways to aid in them.  After many years, Critical Incident Stress/PTSD/CRS, whatever you wish to label it, has finally been recognized...but try to get an appointment with a CIS Debreifer.  You may be surprised to find out that most bases don't have them.  Sure, they magically become available to groups in the decompression stage, but after that, hard to find.

Oh yes, I'm not saying get rid of the Padres, just up the resources, in all fields.

Chimo!
 
 
Ok, ok. Padres do provide a useful service in units and most are good people. It would just be nice, from my point of view, to have a non-religious person be able to provide this service (no pun intended) without jumping through hoops to do it. And, yes, I'm the first to admit my atheism is more militant than the average Canadian. Living in the southern US for six years will do that to you  ;D

Guardian, please don't give me that drivel about religion being required as a basis for moral values. Atheists don't hate in the name of their god. Atheists don't kill in the name of their god.

I'll end with one of my favourite quotes.
Steven Weinberg, Nobel Physics Laureate: "With or without religion, good people can behave well and bad people can do evil; but for good people to do evilâ ”that takes religion."
 
Holly shit batman!

I think this is the first thread where everyone has agreed on the final point!!!! Where is Mr. Bobbit! He's gotta see this!!!

;D

Just kidding, but it's true folks, we need more support for the Forces in this regard indeed across the board. Emotional/spiritual stability is EXTREMELY important no matter what unit/level/rank your in realistically.

Guardian, please don't give me that drivel about religion being required as a basis for moral values. Atheists don't hate in the name of their god. Atheists don't kill in the name of their god.

I'll end with one of my favourite quotes.
Steven Weinberg, Nobel Physics Laureate: "With or without religion, good people can behave well and bad people can do evil; but for good people to do evilâ ”that takes religion."

Perfect, absolutely perfect Sigpig...
 
I'm going to weigh in here firmly on the side of the Chaplaincy. I wonder how many of their detractors here have actually seen our padres, up close, doing their ministry in cases of violent death, serious injury, personal catastrophe, or marital disorder? And doing it regardless of the faith of the soldier involved (and, sometimes, the LACK of faith of the soldier involved...). I have also experienced utterly useless Chaplains, but these have been in the tiny minority and usually do not last long.

IMHO a number of fallacies and glib assumptions are being propagated here, perhaps by posters who smugly assume that all "modern" people share their morally arid viewpoint. Let me address some of these, based on what I have experienced:

The latest stats I can easily find are from 2001 - % of Canadians who were non-Christians - 28, % of Canadians with no religion (atheists, humanists, etc) - 16.

Therefore the overwhelming majority of Canadians profess a religious faith of some sort. IIRC, you will find that by far the majority of these are Roman Catholics. Stop by an RC Church next Sunday-chances are you'll find it packed, and packed by Canadians of all different colours and heritage, particularly Asian- and African- Canadian.

The forces need to stop using padres as cheap substitutes for social workers

The forces don't. This is your opinion, and it appears to me to be a particularly ill-informed one. Here is my opinion. We have had ASWOs for years on just about every base, and we also deploy them on operations. (Here in Afgh, for example). And, to carry things a bit further, the modern chaplain is not a "substitute" for a social worker: he IS a social worker. That is the very essence of the Chaplaincy. Most chaplains I know are well trained in a broad field of knowledge and I know at least one who is directly integrated into the psychological care program in the CF.

counselling skills that are supposed to be part of their jobs. It is too easy to "send him to the padre" and make him someone else's problem.

Again, your opinion appears ill-informed. Have you served in any Army field units, or somewhere else? Junior officers in Army field units have (at least since I was one in the 1980's) received varying degrees of training in this area. More importantly, training or not, they do it because they know it is part of their obligation as leaders. Some do it well, some do not.. All have 2ICs, OCs, and CSMs to turn to for help, and usually do. You seem to suggest that it is a kind of reflex to "dump" a soldier on the padre. I would suggest to you that not only is this not true, but that too often the reverse is true: the chain of command tries to do their best by the soldier "in house" when in fact the best thng they could do is integrate the Chaplain early into the team dealing with the problem. I have known a few good battalion padres over the years and this is a common observation from them: they can't do anything if nobody tells them.

As a non religious person I have never felt comfortable speaking with a padre about any matter.   I didn't share their beliefs to discuss religion and I certainly didn't want to speak to them about a personal problem

Your choice, of course, but it seems odd that thousands of soldiers do. Nobody is "forced" to go to a chaplain-there are a number of alternatives. Are you afraid that you might not be able to deal with the spiritual challenge involved in confronting a person of faith? After all, if you're a dedicated non-believer, there's really no danger of getting "infected" by that nasty irrational religious stuff, is there now?

Now, before you get on your high horses, maybe I found the only padre in the forces that thought that way but it did, in fact, happen.  

Padres, the last time I looked, were human beings. But, think of it this way: it shouldn' surprise you that a doctor would tell you to eat right. It shouldn't surprise you that a chaplain would offer you spirituality: it's what they do. And, anyway, you seem to have survived intact.

Another question, what is the extent of availability of true social workers/psychologists in the forces and are they really members or civilians who work for DND?

See my comment above. We have both types in the CF, and we have access to resources beyond that by contract and referral.And, if you really want, you can do it on your own hook.

BUT, people shouldn't be forced to use them as thier only emotional guide in difficult times.

They aren't.

the guy who is muslim or not religious at all has to talk to him also? Not fair, hence why you cannot smoke in anywhere but public places now days and almost no where indoors unless it's separated. Why should others have to suffer the effects?

Do you have any actual knowledge of how our Chaplaincy deals with this issue? I don't think so. And what do you mean "suffer"?

I don't want to hear thier generic, "God loves you and he will see you through my son"... That doesn't help, at all.

Really? You're sure, now? Human experience, especially in the military, might suggest that for many soldiers it is otherwise. I suggest that if you don't want to hear that, then a) tell them that; or b) go to somebody else.

I'd pay for outside professional help if I really believed I needed it. Then try and see if the Forces would reimburse me later or something.
I'm not sure how much experience you've got, but after a experiencing a few deaths and serious injuries of soldiers, and seeing the chaplains at work, I bet you'll change your mind.

Guardian, please don't give me that drivel about religion being required as a basis for moral values.  

"Drivel?" Drivel---right....show me any major society (other than Communism which is a hideous aberrant joke played on humanity...) whose societal concepts of what is morally correct and ethical are not to the greatest extent informed by their dominant religious faiths. In our society it is unquestionably the Judeo-Christian influence. In much of the world it is Islam, or the Hindu faith, or Buddhism.

Atheists don't hate in the name of their god. Atheists don't kill in the name of their god.

No: apparently atheists are quite capable of doing these things on their own. Given their armour against spiritual issues, I'll bet they aren't as troubled by guilt either.   However, that is not the point IMHO. Rather it is the implication that to have a religious faith is automatically to pervert and distort it to justify all manner of evil or questionable deeds. I suggest to you that you have only gone half the distance here: all beliefs, all tenets, all "goods" can be (and regularly are) used to explain killing, destruction and deprivation of rights.   For examples, I offer "democracy", "freedom"' "self-determination", "security", "ethnic identity" "economic empowerment"; "the class war". etc, etc. The fact is that if we are not to plunge into utter barbarism as a society our actions must be informed by and measured against some commonly held set of guidelines of what is good and acceptable. We must know in what cause, and for what reason, we take human life, or else we are psychopaths. We cannot simply kill and destroy "just   because". Has religious faith been used as a rallying point for evil acts? Yes-indisputably. So has every other major tenet of belief or of national policy, except perhaps nonviolence (at whose feet we might lay acts of omission rather than commission...) I fail to see how that sad historical fact reduces or belittles in any way the work our chaplains do. You may not see the need for them. I do. Cheers.

[Moderator note:  Typographical edit only - surplus "white space" removed at bottom of post - no alteration of content]
 
It is late and I have to be up early, but as I read thru this thread I feel a need to input this into this discussion.

As a member of the red cross wearing clan, who do nothing but ensure your welfare, I want to say that your theory about padres and the CF is out to lunch. Fortunately pbi touched on allot of the points I wanted to push. Here is the part of the rant I wish to add...

The Health care team (yes it is a team) requires players within it to fill each of the niche roles that there are to make it an effective team. Every member of that team has a certain role and areas where their skills are better then some of the others. For me, its in identifying the type of help needed, and being that point of contact with the "higher" care workers and the soldier. Social Workers and Padres DO NOT fill the same role. Social workers are better in fixing the family problems, counselling etc. Padres are the BEST resource in dealing with issues of loss ie death disease etc (times when even the atheists may turn to what ever god they want to). Also I found padres good for assisting in suicide prevention. Padres will also refer you to SW if it is benificial to you, and sucicide prevention and post counselling is a good example of this team approach. Also most padres in the regular CF have taken courses to understand the other religion's ideology so that if they are all alone, they can give some assistance to persons of other denominations.

As suggested, to have jr Officers to enhance counselling skills actually will take away my first line role vs the padre's second/third line care role. After all who do they (officers) refer the person to if the situation is too large. BTW the unit MO can prescribe medications, but really don't do much more counselling witout referrals to higher medical authorities or other personnel such as SW or padres.

So, there is a need, and after all we are primarily a christen society. Padres will/are the best resourse to any commander IRT morale and moral issues of the troops. Until the entire Army structure changes and the CF can hire 1 SW to replace each padre in a unit (I can tell you that will NOT happen as we are CF Health Svc assests, that padres are not), thats the role they will fill.
 
Three Points:

1)   Padre's fulfill an important roll in the Forces.   I've seen it first hand.

2)   This isn't a thread on religion, so let's try and stay away from that barrel of monkeys.

3)   Going on that, I agree with almost everything you said, PBI, except:

"...perhaps by posters who smugly assume that all "modern" people share their morally arid viewpoint."

Take it easy on us heathens.   I'd like to think that I can have some sort of "moist" world viewpoint that is free of a denominational doctrine.
 
I'd like to think that I can have some sort of "moist" world viewpoint that is free of a denominational doctrine.

Well, then....good for you. You are outside the beaten zone for this one. You are evidently a "humid humanist". Cheers.
 
Wow!!   :o   I didn't know that pbi knew everything and that I'm so "ill-informed" my "morally arid viewpoint" isn't worthy of presenting in these hallowed forums. I'll guess I'll just sit back and soak in the omniscience that is pbi in the hopes of making my empty life worthwhile. Or not.

Did you not notice the part where I said padres do provide a useful role? My neighbour in pmq's was the regimental protestant padre - nicest guy in the world. As a jnr offr in the Strathcona's 85-88 my superiors did little or nothing to help me learn how to successfully counsell my troops. Yes I was told to 'send him to the padre.' In retrospect I wish I hadn't and had used resources like my 2IC, OC, SSM and ASWO to help me help my troops.

"Are you afraid that you might not be able to deal with the spiritual challenge involved in confronting a person of faith? After all, if you're a dedicated non-believer, there's really no danger of getting "infected" by that nasty irrational religious stuff, is there now?"

Are you always so condescending towards people with a different viewpoint? Your subordinates must love you. I have no fear of dealing with a person who believes in a non-existent diety. The last I heard delusion and illogic aren't infectious.

If I'm not mistaken, Guardian threw down the 'atheists have no morals' guantlet. I replied with my view to the contrary. "Atheists aren't as troubled by guilt." What kind of a ridiculous statement is that? I need to believe in the big guy in the sky in order to feel guilty about doing something bad to a fellow human? I don't think so. I've read some quotes from a very religious person who murdered a doctor who performed abortions. He didn't seem to feel very guilty. In fact he was quite proud of his actions.

You know, I made a reply to a different thread and brought up the one line question about the use of padres as social workers. I didn't start this thread. From my experience in the army, and from my development into the person I am it was a valid question. After reading the replies here I have acknowledged that padres do provide a valuable service but again reiterated my view that it would be a good thing if these services could be provided by a non-religious person. I didn't set out to make this a religious pissing contest, but others have and I'm not going to stand by and have my character called into question for no good reason.




 
Sigpig, with all due respect, you're misrepresenting what I said. Here's the quote:

4.    And dedicated moves away from religious practice and belief run the risk of removing absolute ethical and moral standards from our framework of values. If morality becomes merely relative to the changing cultural norms of the moment, might it not make it harder to uphold codes of conduct and ethical behaviour? I don't doubt that atheists (such as yourselves) hold strong moral convictions and abide by them, but aren't those values rooted in the religious heritage of our civilization? Look at the last few regimes which decided that religion was unnecessary and useless to public discourse â “ regimes like the Soviet Union and China have done at least as much damage and harm as religion taken too far, like the Inquisition or theocracies like Iran.

Please read my statement carefully before responding to my views. I took the time to read yours   ;) What I was trying to say (and if I failed to bring my point across) is that the CF is trying to build a force that subscribes to ethical values. These values have to be absolute - otherwise they are subject to the changing winds of public or personal opinion, circumstance, or whatever. The values we ascribe to in our society have been more or less codified in institutions and documents like the Charter, the Constitution, the old Bill of Rights, and so forth; however, they didn't BEGIN there. Those documents don't establish moral values; they merely recognize those that have existed in our civilization for centuries. And these values, historically, like it or not, are very much a product of religious influence (in our case, our Judeo-Christian heritage). Different civilizations will have different values - for example, the Arabic stress on hospitality - but invariably you'll find that they are also rooted in religious imperatives. You don't have to subscribe to religious belief to hold moral values, as I said. And sigpig, I'm sure you have and hold moral values as strongly as I do. But to attempt to remove the foundation of our society's values is dangerous - the Communists tried to do exactly that, which is why I cited them. And in recognition that much evil has been done in the name of religion (including my own) I cited Iran and the Spanish Inquisition.

How does this relate to the padres? Well, the posts I was responding to was questioning the need for the padres in social work. Well, social work is rooted in values, isn't it? Notwithstanding the fact that such a restriction would seriously limit the ability of the padres to provide pastoral care WITHIN their religious responsibilities, I believe that removing that role from the chaplaincy would hurt the CF because we would lose several dozen well-qualified and experienced social workers, AND because it would send the message within and outside the CF that religious belief is somehow dated and irrelevant. Carrying that particular message through to its logical conclusion implies that all the beliefs, values, and morals that have been built on the religious foundation are invalid. Including our Western values of freedom, individual rights and responsibilities, and so forth. I personally don't like where that line of reasoning will bring us, and I'm probably not the only one.

I never intended my statement to be a "gauntlet" of any sort. If it was taken that way, I obviously did not explain myself well enough, and thus I apologize. Although I hold strong religious beliefs, I have many close friends who do not, and I respect their choice. AND I respect their intelligence:

sigpig said:
I have no fear of dealing with a person who believes in a non-existent diety. The last I heard delusion and illogic aren't infectious.

This is rather condescending, don't you think? You've put together some very logical, well-reasoned arguments - you can do better than this.   ;)
 
Guardian said:
This is rather condescending, don't you think? You've put together some very logical, well-reasoned arguments - you can do better than this.   ;)

Yes it was condescending, but it was directed towards pbi and the diatribe he blasted me with. I apologize for using an artillery strike when a sabot round would have been more appropriate.

Will try to reign in the emotional responses in future. 

 
I think Recruit Joe is a little misinformed on the resources that are available to members of the CF. Social workers, psychiatrists and chaplains of ALL faiths are available to all CF members. The first Muslim chaplain was enrolled within this last year. There is also talk amongst the chaplain branch to redesign the cap badge to remove the cross from it since the cross does not represent all faiths.

Counselling by junior officers is fine, to a point. Even by senior officers. I know as a senior officer there are a lot of issues out there these days that, not only would I not feel comfortable giving counsel about, but I'm not qualified to do. And sorry, but a one or two day course is just not going to cut it. Also, if I was having a personal problem, the last person that I would feel comfortable sharing my troubles with, would be my superior. If I was seeking counselling for whatever reason, I would definitely inform my superior that I am dealing with some issues and seeking guidance for it, but I don't want that person to know everything that is going on in my life. Now, that's just me personally. And whether I believe in a higher deity or not, is irrelevant. But I do know that I like the thought of having all options available to me should a need arise, whether it be secular or non-secular. Also in defence of the chaplain branch, I've known and talked to quite a few over my years in the CF, and never has religion been part of the guidance I was seeking, unless I asked for it. Just like any other classification or trade, you'll have some good ones and you'll have some bad ones.

But being an officer does not automatically make me a counsellor. I'm an adviser but I am not trained to counsel anyone. I will not counsel anyone on their marriage, financial, or other personal problems, whatever they may be. It doesn't mean that I don't care and am passing the buck. What it does mean, though, is that I know that there are people within the system that are fully qualified to deal with these situations effectively and I'd rather see the person in question get the right help. Now, I'll always be there for the person should it be difficult for him or her to get access (which is quite possible). I'll knock on doors, I'll make the phone calls, I'll do whatever it takes to see that my subordinates are well cared for, by the right people.

Do we need more social workers, psychiatrists, psychologist, chaplains and the like? Yes we do. Just like everything else in the CF.
 
Sigpig: You're right: it gets rough in here sometimes: my response was actually rather restrained compared to some of the thrashings that get administered to some folk around here.(And then there's the "PUNT" button...)

I much appreciate you attributing me with "omniscience": perhaps I overdid the spirituality thing which then led you to that, but I think I tried to present my opinion as my opinion, and my experience as my experience: obviously yours and mine are diametrically opposed in some key areas. (But, perhaps there really IS something to that "omniscience" and to your suggestion about my subordinates: I've often overheard them saying "Oh, God..." when I draw near....)

Of course, to be fair, you are not the only poster I took issue with: I was responding to a number of people whose assumptions and characterizations I disagree with, totally. I was not going to sit by and let their glib statements slide by unchallenged. But then, again, IMHO that's how it works here: you do up your chinstrap and hang on.

Anyway, don't sit in the corner licking your wounds for too long, muttering about pompous old codgers such as me: thrash away. Cheers.
 
pbi said:
Anyway, don't sit in the corner licking your wounds for too long, muttering about pompous old codgers such as me: thrash away. Cheers.

Licking my wounds? I'm sharpening up the pitchfork and polishing my horns   :D

Actually thanks for civil acknowledgement of everyone's right to their opinions and to stand up for them.

I haven't been on here that long but what I've seen lead me to believe that the moderators hardly tolerated any sniping between members. I half expected to be banned after my last posts. If you want to see bloody, you should have seen the war between myself and some red blooded American gun enthusiasts about gun control on another forum I frequent. That got intense!!

I look forward to further discussions here.
 
It's great to have you - welcome aboard.  :salute:

The most hotly contested debates here tend to be the most interesting and illuminating, anyways.
 
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