Hi there, I just wanted to add my 2 cents to this thread because I'm proud to say I've been married to Happydiver for over 18 years now and we have two fantastic teenagers, one boy and one girl. There is sooooooo much more to this story than can ever be told, but when he talks about "looking for a silver lining no matter what life throws at you" this is truly coming from a man who has been to hell and back, and more than once. A lesser man would have given up long ago but he has more grit, charater and drive in his little toe than I have in my entire body. Not only did he never quit, he never let me quit either (even when I REALLY, REALLY wanted too!). I hope his story is an inspiration to everyone....it certainly is for me. For the first time in well over a decade I truly believe that what goes around comes around and sometimes there is such a thing as second chances. Nobody deserves one more than my husband and knowing him like I do, I have no doubts that he will succeed.....I plan on throwing him one heck of a "Wings" party in about 3-4 years from now!!! ;D