It's important to remember a soldier doesn't come to you with a clean slate and empty bucket. They have a past and a past Ops Tempo.
Speaking only for my own lane, I was very upfront with my current CoC that I was gone 289 days last year and I intend to use this year to rebalance with my family as I am going back into the hopper again this coming summer.
I also think, in the Army, the RegF lacks knowledge about what is required/expected of RSS staff. And many times people are posted into those positions to give them a break or to let them be closer to home to deal with some situation. While I was G4 Sup in 36 this pretty much the case for all of the reg force people who I interacted with in our various units.