Kirkhill,
Care to join me in cultural
counter-revolution? >

Because that's really what's at issue here. Reviving the real meaning of Remembrance Day is like reviving the real meaning of Christmas - you need people to actually believe in it. You and I know what "failing hands" means - and more importantly we react to it emotionally because it has real meaning in the military. But Canada's official state ideology doesn't recognize the utility of war to maintain and protect our "values" - (however Ottawa has decided to define those this week.)
Remembrance Day - as you quite rightly noted - has become less a rumination on sacrifice than a paean to pacificism - and considering how Canada's military history is taught in the public education system - when it's taught at all - the pacifist imperative is dominant when teaching is based on the assumption that war is "futile".
My first introduction to the First World War was through the film
Oh, What a Lovely War! in high school and I suspect that not much has changed in the 30 years since. I would argue that John McCrae (despite the Heritage Canada Minute) has about as much cultural resonance with today's younger generation as Peter the Hermit or Gustavus Adolphus. Maybe even less.
Ever since 1968, it's been the year zero as far the Liberal Party (and occassionally the old PC Party) and its intellectual allies are concerned - re-writing the country's history and re-casting its cultural symbolism to justify the moral imperatives of multi-culturalism and the welfare state - and of course to ease - if not erase - the historical tensions with Quebec whose populace opposed Canadian involvement in both world wars and who regarded the country's largely anglo-dominated military institutions as an instrument of imperialism.
In short, I don't know how we can revive the original meaning of Remembrance Day or whether this is a practical proposition - my guess is that it's not - we simply have to work within the new cultural boundaries that have been created in the last 30 years and do the best we can by recognizing that Canada's martial traditions survive within a select sub-culture of the population - most often represented on this forum.
Cheers, mdh