FJAG said:
Let me say briefly that based on your position you are not a true social conservatist like you may believe. You're positions are entirely to reasonable and believe in "live and let live" in many ways. That's not social conservatism.
I suppose I would say I'm a "pragmatic social conservative" if that's a thing. The quote you gave describing "social conservative" fits me to a tee, I do believe "society is built upon a fragile network of relationships which need to be upheld through duty, traditional values and established institutions" ... although I'm not skeptical of social change since we live in a liberal society, so I'm all for social change in the current milieu.
Where the difference may come is that I do not see "duty" and "traditional values" as something that should or even can be enforced coercively by the state. These are things that need to develop organically in society. As for "established institutions" they definitely play a role but, here's where the "pragmatic" part comes in ... forcing people to live their lives a certain way is nearly impossible to do without creating a dystopian hellhole, doesn't really work, and above all, you can't rule a liberal nation with a conservative government. Politics are downstream of culture, not the other way around. I think this is the biggest problem most "social conservatives" have ... they want to just impose their values on every one by winning an election once every four years and pour their resources into that. Liberals are much wiser -- they try to "win hearts and minds" by focusing on culture.
So I say if social conservatives want a more conservative country, don't vote for a guy who's going to artificially impose your values on other people. Instead, be the change you want to see in the world. Live your life the way you think life should be lived and spread your positive message. Try to win people over instead of trying to control them.
FJAG said:
My problem with social conservatists in the Conservative Party is that they are trying to hijack the party so that they can push their restrictive agenda. That makes the party unelectable in this country and therefore leaves fiscal conservatives like me out pounding sand in frustration as the Liberals keep up their feel-good cash giveaway.
:cheers:
I agree that any party will be unelectable running on a platform of "we're going to force our conservative values on you". The Liberal can get away with forcing their leftist values because they have the backing of the media, the teachers who are educating the young, and therefore a good chunk of society.
Also as I noted above, in my view, it would actually do more harm than good to try to impose abortion laws or outlaw homosexuality. There would be a backlash and the social conserve positions would become even MORE unpopular than they are now.