Infanteer said:
Ok. Take the jousting to the PMs.
Roger. I'll switch tack to just giving better advice to the OP myself.
Markopolo,
Your initial post presented a concern that a Capt was taking government money to which he is not entitled, and your language implied he was cognizant of what he was doing. Your second post confirms that he is not only cognizant but boastful of his behaviour. You asked why you and your husband should become involved. The answer is because if you do nothing, you are allowing the crime to go uncorrected. If you do nothing you are enabling the crime to continue. Your husband has a military duty to report while you do not, but ethically you are both involved; you both have an ethical duty to do something. This is not a moral dilemma; there are clear right and wrong answers. You can choose to do nothing and facilitate the crime, or you can choose something to make the situation right.
You or your husband could confront the Capt about his behaviour. While this may cause him to correct his behaviour going forward, it could also facilitate his hiding of previously received unearned money. Given that you have presented the Capt as being cognizant and unremorseful of his actions, I would suggest that you have an ethical obligation to report this if you believe the allegation that you have posted in this thread.
You have been cautioned in this thread to worry about many things for which you do not need to worry. You do not need your husband’s permission to report a crime that you believe to have happened. You do not need to consult a lawyer to report a crime that you believe to have happened. You do not need to confront an individual before you report a crime that you believed they committed. You do not need to worry about what consequences may come if due process confirms the occurrence of a crime that you reported because you believed it to have happened. You do not need to confirm beyond a reasonable doubt that a crime has been committed, you just need to reasonably believe that a crime has been committed and once you hit that threshold you have an ethical obligation to do something.
Your reporting of the crime you believe to have happened will trigger processes that address all the things that others have suggested are your problem to resolve first. Your complaint will initiate an investigation. The investigator will have access to the relevant policies and subject matter experts. The Capt will be afforded procedural fairness during a military investigation as even our administrative investigations require people be informed of and given opportunity to respond to adverse evidence against them. Investigators, charge layers, and presiding officers are all required to get advice from a lawyer at various stages of the process. If after an investigation it is determined that a service or criminal offence if probable, there will still be a trial at which the Capt will be afforded opportunity to defend himself. If administrative conduct are performance deficiencies are suggested by the investigation, the procedures again require that the Capt be given opportunity to represent his position to the decision maker before sever consequences are applied. If he feels he has been treated wrongly by either administrative or disciplinary processes, he has recourses available circumstances to have his situation reviewed. So let the system work.
If there is concern about blow-back from a power imbalance, there are still options available. Your husband can take the problem to the unit chief clerk, talk to the unit ethics advisor, or engage any other officer or sr NCO he trusts. Either one of you can report this to the MPs or even to the RCMP. As another option, the whistle blower site has already been linked for you.
… and if the ethical argument is not enough, then do something out of anger as a taxpayer. If you believe the allegation that you have posted, then this Capt has stolen a few thousand to a few tens of thousands (depending on local entitlement and what he is renting) of money that really belongs to all Canadians.
Strike said:
So, here's a situation that might just make all of this somewhat moot.
Does the Capt have kids? If so, and custody has yet to be determined via a separation agreement or the courts, then the Capt, as the father, is still considered as having custody of the children, even if he and his wife are separated. (As is she, mind you, but that's not being disputed.) So, his IR would still be valid, would it not? Especially if the reason for IR was for the kids' sake.
Read the policy link that I posted. This is irrelevant to IR status (and thus to SE entitlement)