My boyfriend left for bmq about seven weeks ago. He still hasn't gotten paid, still hasn't gotten a weekend off and I'm still getting a lot of I don't know's about where we're goig to live and when we're going to see each other. My patience is, unfortuanately wearing thin.... I know that's horrible. I'm wondering how other people deal with all the stress...... of not getting to talk to them for a week and not getting to know when you can visit them. For the navy, where would the possible postings be after bmq? So I can start to plan a move if planning is possible?