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Hey,
So my common law fiance has decided to leave me. We broke up October 21st while I was on deployment and I've had to come home to deal with it, but we still live together till she can find a place. I know that's messed up but I didn't want to put her out in the cold so to speak. She will be gone in January. Now I need help drawing up a separation agreement.
She said she doesn't want any part of my pension, savings accounts, or spousal support from me. Were also going to do 50/50 child custody. I know, it's a freaking miracle. I need to get this stuff in writing and get her John Hancock on it ASAP. She said she'll sign anything I put in front of her, because taking stuff from me would undermine her sense of new found independence. Whatever!
So I talked to the padre and she was going to hook me up with people who can help with this but she never got back to me. I'm not sure what to do as I have never gone through this before and I was wondering if anyone could help me out. From personal experience or maybe a RMS clerk.
1. What military paperwork do I need.
2. Can AJAG help me out or do I get a civilian lawyer?
3. Can MFRC help out with this?
4. How do I go about protecting my pension. (Shes entitled to half of four years.)
Help me my brother's and sister's in arms. I need to look out for myself and my son before she changes her mind. I don't think she will but I'm keeping my cards close to my chest until that paperwork is done. And I want it to be water tight so some judge can't throw it out saying she was bullied into signing it or something.
I'm based out of Esquimalt so if anyone knows a good lawyer/mediator there, that would be great.
So my common law fiance has decided to leave me. We broke up October 21st while I was on deployment and I've had to come home to deal with it, but we still live together till she can find a place. I know that's messed up but I didn't want to put her out in the cold so to speak. She will be gone in January. Now I need help drawing up a separation agreement.
She said she doesn't want any part of my pension, savings accounts, or spousal support from me. Were also going to do 50/50 child custody. I know, it's a freaking miracle. I need to get this stuff in writing and get her John Hancock on it ASAP. She said she'll sign anything I put in front of her, because taking stuff from me would undermine her sense of new found independence. Whatever!
So I talked to the padre and she was going to hook me up with people who can help with this but she never got back to me. I'm not sure what to do as I have never gone through this before and I was wondering if anyone could help me out. From personal experience or maybe a RMS clerk.
1. What military paperwork do I need.
2. Can AJAG help me out or do I get a civilian lawyer?
3. Can MFRC help out with this?
4. How do I go about protecting my pension. (Shes entitled to half of four years.)
Help me my brother's and sister's in arms. I need to look out for myself and my son before she changes her mind. I don't think she will but I'm keeping my cards close to my chest until that paperwork is done. And I want it to be water tight so some judge can't throw it out saying she was bullied into signing it or something.
I'm based out of Esquimalt so if anyone knows a good lawyer/mediator there, that would be great.