Completely understandable. It's pretty easy to figure out exactly who I am from my profile, and that may not be such a great decision on my part.
However, you must realize that it is easy to characterize you as a "rando" as well?
Ironically, looking in from the outside, it seems you and the primary focus of your disagreement actually agree with a basic fact... the problem isn't defining what it takes to lift an appropriate guidance, it's the lack of a definition of what an appropriate QRF is. It seems to me unfortunate you're getting bogged down in minuscha (sp?), but that is the reality of the internet.