Just a question, probably for a clerk.
Joined military in 2007, became reg force 2010, I had a residence at time of joining reg force and my father was listed as a dependant on all my papers such as MPRR from reserves, and I provided military with paperwork. Joined reg force as single, go to begin QL3 in june 2010, get rid of my residence as brookfield moved my F and E which was wrong as I was a restricted posting not prohibited, and my father could not move with me as he was on a medical trial and moved him in with my sister when training on QL3. Paid r and q, I am not arguing this.
Sept 2010 get married while doing QL3 take father off my paperwork as dependant, then get pregnant, cease trained and husband then posted follow him on attach posting to finish pregnancy and continue on MATA, DCBA approves to move my F and E at publics expense to marital home, also a home I secured for my now young dependant because it had been erroneously stored from the beginning.
2012 go back on course to finish Ql3 leave dependant in the home I secured and where my F and E is, and husband who will be the primary care giver while attending mandatory training, and I am required to pay R and Q. This is where to me I am confused, as it is being explained to me I am not entitled because of married after COS date and no new posting so am considered "single" still until a new posting. This is what i am confused about, and heres my explanation as to why:
I am considered "single" on my message, but have a dependant, so technically if you take the whole marriage out I am a "single" parent and still have to find alternative care while attending training, and under DAOD 5003-5 it states that after a pregnant woman gives birth they have 17 weeks to vacate quarters or until the end of MATA which ever comes first, to secure a crown controlled or private residence, I chose a private residence for reasons such as my attach posting as well as where my F and E has been moved. SO I go to finish my Ql3 am paying all my household bills, child care, mortgage etc, and on top of that paying 785 a month for r and q, and this was before the new rules were implemented for R and Q and sep pay etc.
So after all my rambling and a very very short version of my complication situation, I just want an opinion from a clerk or some one who may have any knowledge on what I can expect to happen or any policies I am unaware of , as I am trying to get recuperation of the r and q I paid for 4 months.
Thank you.
