LOL , it's seems that my answer to that man must be explained
OK, here I go. Without knowing the purpose of the said yummie guy, I suspected is was for
an unknown male/female reason (sex, girlfriend, marriage, or sometimes toward that) and not friendship,
as he asked me for a drink without having speak to me previously.
At that time, I was past the "one night stand" phase, which I'm still.
I want out with a Gabunais guy some year previously (translator says Gabon is "gabun").
It didn't work out, I think in part because of the difference of culture. Wasn't interested in that time
to try again. By the way, I had a little shock when I was going out with him in realising that each time that I though
maybe I'll have kid one day, I never thought that they would be anything else then "Caucasian".
I was asked by a friend when I was in college to marry one of her friend for citizenship reasons, which I declined.
I'm not interested to marry someone to help him get a better chance at being Canadian. By the way. I think most women marrying
a non-Canadian who is coming from a country with a wide gap in living standard is taking a huge chance.
So, I wasn't interested in "having a drink" with the yummie guy for any reason that I thought could be his...
(I asked him why
, he said to know me better).