When it comes to Irans behaviour towards the west, is it really any surprize that they feel paranoid, angry, and potently skepticle of anything/everything we do towards them??
Lets just look at a FEW of the incidents that have occurred in the past 20 years, and it might help explain why Iran isnt exactly rushing to appease us or our wishes.
- In 1988, US warship shoots down an Iranian civilian airliner, in Iranian airspace. All 300 people onboard were killed.
- In 1953, the US and UK orchestrate a coup. Known as Operation Boot in the UK and Operation TPAJAX in the US - the democratically elected government was overthrown, and the country went from a constitutional monarchy to an authoritarian regime. (Yes, the authoritarian regime was put in place BY THE WEST). This, while somewhat complicated, basically started when Iran nationalized its oil program in 1951 & put Britains asset security in jeopardy.
- In 1991, the west had cruise missiles flying over Iranian airspace to hit targets in western Iraq. (Deep down I am sure they wouldnt have minded, but this was done without their permission and in most cases without their knowledge.)
- Recently, within the last few years, economic sanctions. Again, its mostly the general population that suffers from what it perceives as yet another unjustified series of acts intended to harm them from a foreign power they have done nothing to offend or aggress against. (I distinctly remember having dinner in a family home, and the general feeling was...what have we ever done to the US to have them treat us like this over the past 50 years?)
The politics of it dont always resonate with the average person just trying to run their barber shop or donaire shop.
In the end, I think we in the west have very short memories. They dont. Nobody over here could really care less that the US accidentally shot down an airliner full of people 24yrs ago. But the people in Iran - having a civilian airliner shot down in their own airspace by a country they werent even at war with - they dont forget as quickly or as easily as we do. And thats just one example.