Those are different goalposts. There are lots of countries in the world I could happily live in, despite whichever flaws I think each has. The point was about resisting American invasion. I'd make the same challenge to those "hoping" for a resistance if I lived in New Zealand and they were (irrationally) concerned about (unlikely) takeover by Australia. Pose the question with Russia or China in the place of the US or Australia and I'll give a different short answer.
Those who "hope" people will kill and die for Canada if it's invaded by a particular country should try making the case for the specific scenario, not wash themselves in vague aspirations that a bundle of social welfare programs is worth the cost.
It's possible to be patriotic and to be severely critical. Every time I vote, I vote for the position closest to what I would prefer, undeterred by leadership qualities or vague imaginary worries of the electorally near-impossible ascension of some severe brand of social conservativism. And I advocate for it, which is what I'm doing right now. And I will dissent if someone tries to propose that killing or being killed by Americans is really worth anything, which is the same position I take on dealing with any unilaterally seceding region of Canada being opposed by force.