The combat uniform need not be treated like some sensitive ball-gown. It is a wash and wear garment, full-stop. No turning inside-out, no "gentle" wash cycle", no hang-drying. Wash your CADPAT unform as you would any other robust item of clothing. If the camouflage pattern fades away before the material wears out, then you are in in decidedly "sedate" trade where the concealment properties of the uniform are largely irrelevant in any case.
The Combat uniform is meant to be worn hard, and treated hard. I've been wearing CADPAT since late 2000, and I have zero complaints. And that includes putting the 1st-issue "white tag" uniforms through 6 months of "boil and burn" laundering in Afghanistan. It held up just fine for my purposes.
Stop fussing over your uniforms. Wear them, wash them, and carry on. When they fall apart, exchange them. We're not exactly talking rocket science here.....
Sheeesh!