Moosy said:
I have been in training almost 2 years now. And I'm curious of some experienced members of the CF could tell me when I can expect to be treated like a human. It seems as though no matter how hard you try and good you do you still get in trouble, while the real trouble makers weasle their way out of things.
I never expected training to take this long but that is another story I just want to stop getting screwed around, do my job, train and go over seas.
Oh boy.
I don't know how to explain it. "Look after your buddies - your buddies look after you?" The CF needs you to learn to work like a team, because our success overseas and on missions depends upon that teamwork being second nature. It's quite frustrating while in the training system I know.
Really, are the "real" trouble makers really weaseling out of anything, or is it that you are all getting in trouble for their screw ups?
I know when I went through -- one of the guys in my section got shit on royally for having crappy boots. Three mornings in a row with zero improvement to them. On day three --- the instructor took a glance at his boots again then walked over to my bedspace and tore a strip off me. "You &%$#@# idiot!! You have the best *((^%*) boots in this **^^$P) section -- yet his STILL suck. When the ()*(&^$%# are you going to learn some teamwork and get them ^**$$ done!!??" With that, the instructor walked out with nary a word to the boot's owner.
That night ... guess who was doing the boots? I was. Guess what he was doing? Ironing my damn uniform.
Find something that your "trouble-makers" are good at. Make them do that. Your instructors aren't about to make them do it. They are trying to instill leadership and discipline into you and your fellow trainees. You guys find something that they're good at, and while they do that --- you do the stuff you are good at. At the end of the day, everything is done ... and done well. All because you acted like a team. When you start doing that, and it has become habit --- you'll find that your instructors will begin treating you more like the adults and team that you've become.
If buddy still doesn't want to play the game despite your best attempts at "teamwork" ...
then the instructors will kick his ass into gear -- or he'll be gone. They DO notice these things ... it's part of their job.