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Islam and Western Society

Thanks for all the explaining, AbdullahD, and adding to the meat without adding just sizzle.

One caveat for you, though ...
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AbdullahD said:
... Then I look at things like 'Jewish' extremism in the USA at 7% when 'Islamic' extremism is at 6% yet the Jewish religion as respectable and honorable as it is.. is vastly smaller then Islam in the world.

http://www.globalresearch.ca/non-muslims-carried-out-more-than-90-of-all-terrorist-attacks-in-america/5333619

(...)
I'd be careful quoting from this site because the organizers tend to view the world a bit ... conspiratorially ...
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Jarnhamar said:
Abdullah I put this here under Island and Western Society since I think you self-identifying as a Muslim convert opens up some interesting topics and discussions about Islam. Putting converting in a positive light instead of what we often hear about in the news. 

Please don't feel I'm trying to put you on trial or anything but I also didn't think you would mind because (at least to me) it kind of feels like your primary reason for posting is to talk about Islam  where recruiting to the CF is a distant second.

Actually, the primary reason I am here, by an extremely large margin is and was to learn about the CF, the application process and different trials that I will face. I am a huge believer in only talking about things you know, since regarding the Armed forces and other topics here I am woefully ignorant, it leaves me with this topic. That is likely the only reason you see me posting at all, but I am in no way, shape, or form here to discuss Islam and Muslims as my sole or primary purpose. I am sorry I came across that way, I actually read quite a few of the physical fitness threads from start to finish and they helped me a lot, I've also read every post about the trade I'm interested in etc etc. This Islam stuff is secondary.

You've mentioned being a convert a couple times that I remember and again perhaps it is just me but your posts often seem to come across as someone born and raised a Muslim.   So you've spoken about how people don't really understand Islam and spoken to how Muslim women are treated while growing up in a Islamic house as well as how you think most women who wear the Burka etc.. are happy to do so.  

Do you think it's possible having only converted to Islam 10 or so years ago(as an adult) you may have missed out on a lot of what happens in the formative years (if I'm saying that correctly) and perhaps you may have only been exposed to the academic and nicer (for lack of a better word) side of Islam?  How long ago did your wife convert to Islam? Was it as an adult and possibly put her in the same boat as you so to speak?

Aye, good thoughts and very valid. Now first off my wife did convert as an adult around 20 years of age so yes, it is so to speak the same boat.

Also, the reason I mention me converting relatively often is because converts face a very different set of issues then born Muslims. Born Muslims get inundated with culture and Islam from the very beginning, converts get it as adults.. which sometimes give us the skill to differentiate the culture from the religion.

Since my wife and I have been together we have now started raising our own children. We use a hybrid of Canadian Culture and the Islamic religion. So the oppression you see in certain documentaries about certain ethnic groups does not exist in our home, except maybe some flaws all Canadians have. The Islamic religion does give rights to the parents and we are to do our best to raise them properly, punishment sadly is a part of growing up.. but not beatings.

The sheer amount of hadiths that exist about treating kids nicely is astounding, so that confirms to me that is how we are supposed to treat them. I am currently on a road trip to pick up some cars so I can not really properly source them right now. but here are two hadiths close to the meaning, off the top of my head.

One states, that those who do not have respect for the elders and compassion for the youth is not from among us (ie they are not Muslim)

The other I can recall states; that a young boy who was a servant of the Prophet sws, from a tender age until he had grown up. Said upon recalling all the times he had made mistakes that the Prophet sws never once raised his voice to admonish him.

I do believe these both are sahih hadiths, they are also very well known. I take them as part of an arguement that anyone who is abusive and oppressive towards children, is not practicing Islam at all. The evil side that you see, without seeing specific examples, I chalk up to culture and not Islam. I recently had a guy take me out and let me try out his AR15's and his HK 9mm handgun.. afterwards he came to my house and when he saw how my kids interacted with me, I feel he finished forming an opinion about me.

Now this is not just my home, I have many friends from many different ethnic and cultural groups and their kids are not oppressed or abused too. I have also seen oppressed and abused Canadian kids... I feel Islam nor any other religion promotes abusing kids, but some people just need an excuse to feel powerful.. so children suffer and many times the wife too.

I also do not think I have 'missed' it, being Muslim for a while now I have friends who have had kids and I get to watch how they interact with their children.. if anything I say they are far to lenient.. my wife have higher expectations so to speak. So watching my friends with their kids and knowing these different arguements. I personally believe I have not been exposed to a separate Islam from what kids see, but I have just been exposed to the religion not the culture.

I hope that answers it

Abdullah

Ps Jarnhammer I am honestly sorry that I come across as being here to talk about Islam first. My Islam is first to me, but the reason I am here is to be the best damned recruit I can be and not let my family down.

Pss thanks Milnews, I suspect I should be more careful if I have a more critical crowd. I guess this is why I try to avoid debates, I'm bad at it lol
 
AbdullahD said:
Pss thanks Milnews, I suspect I should be more careful if I have a more critical crowd. I guess this is why I try to avoid debates, I'm bad at it lol
You're not bad at debate/discussion at all - just wanted to make sure you're tapping the best support for your arguments.  Please, continue!
 
AbdullahD said:
Actually, the primary reason I am here, by an extremely large margin is and was to learn about the CF, the application process and different trials that I will face. I am a huge believer in only talking about things you know, since regarding the Armed forces and other topics here I am woefully ignorant, it leaves me with this topic. That is likely the only reason you see me posting at all, but I am in no way, shape, or form here to discuss Islam and Muslims as my sole or primary purpose. I am sorry I came across that way, I actually read quite a few of the physical fitness threads from start to finish and they helped me a lot, I've also read every post about the trade I'm interested in etc etc. This Islam stuff is secondary.

Fair enough, please don't apologize though I'm just always suspicious to the point of being an asshole  ;)

Just for context I mention it because when you joined the board you posted two quick intro posts then on your 3rd jumped into a huge post about Islam, including where you say  "I supprot the sharia"  then more large posts on your 4th, 5th, 7th etc... 
It's easy to look at your post history and form an opinion on what the meat and potatos of your posts are about so in this case I wasn't just trying to shitpost.


Aye, good thoughts and very valid. Now first off my wife did convert as an adult around 20 years of age so yes, it is so to speak the same boat.

Roger. 

Also, the reason I mention me converting relatively often is because converts face a very different set of issues then born Muslims. Born Muslims get inundated with culture and Islam from the very beginning, converts get it as adults.. which sometimes give us the skill to differentiate the culture from the religion.

You said this as well in one of your earlier posts (things got a bit heated, all good)
See look, I spent 30 seconds on google and look at all these links i got validating my points. Must mean im right, right? Do we really need to continue this pathetic childish argument? I am saying real Islam treats women right and I have authentic texts backing it up. You are talking about cultural crap.

Taking into consideration both your wife and yourself only recently converted (or perhaps better said converted in adulthood) is it safe to suggest the both of you missed out on a whole bunch of the culture that happens behind closed doors when children are growing up or how they are taught, what they're exposed to etc.. ? So it's really easy for you to brush off a lot of the negative aspects of it?


Since my wife and I have been together we have now started raising our own children. We use a hybrid of Canadian Culture and the Islamic religion. So the oppression you see in certain documentaries about certain ethnic groups does not exist in our home, except maybe some flaws all Canadians have. The Islamic religion does give rights to the parents and we are to do our best to raise them properly, punishment sadly is a part of growing up.. but not beatings.

The sheer amount of hadiths that exist about treating kids nicely is astounding, so that confirms to me that is how we are supposed to treat them. I am currently on a road trip to pick up some cars so I can not really properly source them right now. but here are two hadiths close to the meaning, off the top of my head.

Abdullah it sounds like you have a great family and a great house hold. I really mean that. Do you think it's possible the way you amalgamated Islam and Canadian culture so well is because you joined Islam as an educated adult and had the opportunity or ability to pick and choose what worked and what didn't? You were able to approach it from a scholastic and theoretical view? It feels like it really appealed to you on an academic level.


afterwards he came to my house and when he saw how my kids interacted with me, I feel he finished forming an opinion about me.

Realizing now you converted to Islam and weren't raised in it I have to admit I'm even more intrigued by your views on if your kids decided they would be Catholics or atheists or just not follow Muslim beliefs.



 
Since my wife and I have been together we have now started raising our own children. We use a hybrid of Canadian Culture and the Islamic religion. So the oppression you see in certain documentaries about certain ethnic groups does not exist in our home, except maybe some flaws all Canadians have. The Islamic religion does give rights to the parents and we are to do our best to raise them properly, punishment sadly is a part of growing up.. but not beatings.

Will your children have to wear a head covering? What about being in public by themselves? Are they going to be raised with western, occidental values?

Perhaps you'd like to explain exactly what flaws all Canadian have and, given your penchant for your new lifestyle, (cause it's not just a religion ), what similar flaws exist in Islam? Will your daughters be educated in a mosque, madras or public school?


 
recceguy said:
Will your children have to wear a head covering? What about being in public by themselves? Are they going to be raised with western, occidental values?

Perhaps you'd like to explain exactly what flaws all Canadian have and
, given your penchant for your new lifestyle, (cause it's not just a religion ), what similar flaws exist in Islam? Will your daughters be educated in a mosque, madras or public school?

Off the top of my head:
Materialistic
Lazy
Selfish
Alcoholic
Impatient
Sensitive
 
recceguy] Perhaps you'd like to explain exactly what flaws all Canadian have[/quote] [quote author=Lumber said:
Off the top of my head:
Materialistic
Lazy
Selfish
Alcoholic
Impatient
Sensitive

Ya what a bunch of infidels eh?
 
Jarnhamar said:
Ya what a bunch of infidels eh?

I have a ball-cap given to me by a USN LCdr that says exactly that, in both English and Arabic.
 
recceguy said:
Will your children have to wear a head covering? What about being in public by themselves? Are they going to be raised with western, occidental values?

Perhaps you'd like to explain exactly what flaws all Canadian have and, given your penchant for your new lifestyle, (cause it's not just a religion ), what similar flaws exist in Islam? Will your daughters be educated in a mosque, madras or public school?

Recceguy, I think you took me a little to literally. All new Canadian parents, face similar trials and tribulations. We as a nation have different issues then say afghani's or Ethiopian's in their respective countries face. Please notice I said Canadians, not Muslim, Christian, Jew etc. Christian Canadians, Muslim Canadians etc, all face these issues. I made that comment in an abstract sense. But since I have ticked you off, I will, because I feel so inclined answer a couple questions.

Now if I said I had two daughters, sorry that was a typo. I have a daughter (4)and a son (2), regarding the education I will allow them to have, I truely have not decided. To me it is not a binary question of either this way or that way, I believe I can have my kids in a blended system. Such an example could be is going to the public school for the secular education, then go to the Madrasa or Makhtab or even an online education system. Some real good ones do exist. Or I could put the kids in a private Islamic school and then put them in extra curricular activities with kids in the general public.

My family is a Muslim family in Canada, why on earth would we try to hide from it? Insulating our kids from the broader Canadian society, I personally think would be a idiotic idea.. because eventually they will interact with this society. Now I have heard a saying to the effect of "catholic school girls" and how wild they go, insulating my kids from the real world.. would likely just have the same effect.

Now you bring up Western Occidental values and wether I will be teaching my kids them, that also seems to me like you think it is an Islam vs the West scenario. To me, it is not. I can teach my kids the sanctity of life, love of liberty and freedom, duty to your country and fellow man etc etc and I will feel those are all Canadian and Islamic Values.

Now you bring up wether I will force my daughter to cover her head etc and if she can go out alone.. well at 4 years old, now way in hell at 15 why wouldnt I? I do not force my kids or wife to do anything, I encourage with love and wisdom as best as I can. My daughter currently enjoys getting into her "sunday best" to go to the Mosque to pray. There are certain dress code rules regarding prayer, that she should follow so I try to tech her. But I do not "force" her anymore then say a Christian parent forces their kids to dress nice to go to the church on sunday. I feel that parents who force their kids and are oppressive towards their children are displaying some very disgusting behavior and god willing I will never oppress or abuse my family.

I hope that makes amends. Jarnhamar, I am working on yours now, recce just seemed a little annoyed with my wording, so I wanted to patch it up first ;)

Now on to coffee number two... err reply #2.

Abdullah
 
Thanks for fixing the quotes ;)

Jarnhamar said:
Fair enough, please don't apologize though I'm just always suspicious to the point of being an *******  ;)

Just for context I mention it because when you joined the board you posted two quick intro posts then on your 3rd jumped into a huge post about Islam, including where you say  "I supprot the sharia"  then more large posts on your 4th, 5th, 7th etc... 
It's easy to look at your post history and form an opinion on what the meat and potatos of your posts are about so in this case I wasn't just trying to shitpost.

Looking at it from your point of view, the suspicion was definitely warranted for you. I have actually come to really enjoy the caliber of discussion on this board, it is an extreme rarity on the Internet sadly.. so maybe because I enjoy the intelligent discussion, I post a lot.. I have missed conversation that makes you think.. having two kids, my level and type of discussion has changed dramatically.

Roger. 

You said this as well in one of your earlier posts (things got a bit heated, all good)
Taking into consideration both your wife and yourself only recently converted (or perhaps better said converted in adulthood) is it safe to suggest the both of you missed out on a whole bunch of the culture that happens behind closed doors when children are growing up or how they are taught, what they're exposed to etc.. ? So it's really easy for you to brush off a lot of the negative aspects of it?

This is valid. I can never know, can I? If I am not seeing it then I can believe it does not exist, even if it does. So yes, it 'could' be happening, but I am sticking to the guns and saying I highly doubt it. I have two convert male friends, one married a Pakistani lady and one Married an Egyptian lady and they have never brought anything up about this kind of stuff and they happen to be two of my closest friends with kids. My wife also has a girlfriend who reverted and married a Pakistani guy and so far we have heard nothing from that sister too. But things exist in every culture around the world, that a minority act upon that would disgust us all.. and a lot of cultures have their own specific traits that seem innocent to them, but foreign and weird to others.. so who knows, you may be right, but my guns are still blazing so to speak ;)

Abdullah it sounds like you have a great family and a great house hold. I really mean that. Do you think it's possible the way you amalgamated Islam and Canadian culture so well is because you joined Islam as an educated adult and had the opportunity or ability to pick and choose what worked and what didn't? You were able to approach it from a scholastic and theoretical view? It feels like it really appealed to you on an academic level.

Thank you and I would be a bold faced liar, if I said Islam does not and did not appeal to me on an academic level. I won't spiel on about the nuanced intricacies and how interesting I find them, but suffice to say you are spot on.

Now regarding picking and choosing, we don't. Everything 'Islamic' we do, I can support with a fatwa or fatawa's from one or more Islamic scholars. But we also very heavily follow the teachings that their is no compulsion in religion and that Islam should be taught with love and wisdom. So coming to it as an adult, I was more critical of it, but that also allowed me to see the different styles of Islam that exist and choose the one that worked for us as a family.. but every Muslim has that right in Islam, any Muslim can change their school of thought and take any fatawa from any reputable scholar. But sadly, this particular right, is not very well taught... which could be argued contributes to some of the issues Islam and Muslims face.

Realizing now you converted to Islam and weren't raised in it I have to admit I'm even more intrigued by your views on if your kids decided they would be Catholics or atheists or just not follow Muslim beliefs.

Hmm.. insert a internal debate on wether I was going to answer this publically.

God guides who he wills and takes guidance away from who he wills, regarding Islam. Now being a Muslim in no way, shape or form, implies, hints or proves that a person is a good person. It just implies that a fellow is potentially following the most correct religion (this is just my opinion, I am not trying to force it on others).

I would in no way disown them, I would investigate why or what made them feel Islam was wrong and try to overcome those objections in time with love. But having said that, I have seen many ex-Muslims/Christians/etc and seen many similar traits that lead to disbelief. Usually it was or is parents forcing kids to do religious acts, without explaining the why of it and without developing the ability to be critical of what followers of their faith do and be able to separate it from what the religion teaches.

Even if all my precautions and remedial measures did not work, I would assume to an extent I failed in this particular regard. But not completely as a parent. Mind you if my kids turn out to be drug addicted criminals who renounced Islam.. then I would have considered myself a complete failure. But absolutely everything is up to God to decide, if he decides this is my families fate, then it is my families fate. I just pray for the best for my family and all those I care about all the time. Who knows maybe they have to leave Islam and come back for some reason that only Allah knows.

Is this good enough?

Abdullah
 
I'll work on a reply Abdullah.


In the mean time, just came across this lovely piece of work.

Man who raped 10-year-old boy at swimming pool in Austria has sentence overturned by Supreme Court
http://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/europe/iraqi-refugee-raped-10-year-old-boy-swimming-pool-vienna-austria-sentence-conviction-overturned-a7377491.html
Supreme Court judges ruled that the first court should have established whether the attacker thought his victim agreed to a sexual act and intended to act against the boy’s will.
 
Jarnhamar said:
I'll work on a reply Abdullah.


In the mean time, just came across this lovely piece of work.

Man who raped 10-year-old boy at swimming pool in Austria has sentence overturned by Supreme Court
http://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/europe/iraqi-refugee-raped-10-year-old-boy-swimming-pool-vienna-austria-sentence-conviction-overturned-a7377491.html

Aye I saw that too, my understanding is they are going back and following the 'proper procedures'. Apparently they messed up along the way and my guess is they are going back to make sure he doesn't get off easy, because they accidentally messed up. From my understanding, no one is saying he is innocent either, so maybe this is sensationalism in the media over nothing? But that is a pointless discussion too, we know the msm has its agendas ;)

I'd argue that this is not necessarily an Islam in the west issue, but a Migrant/Refugee in the west issue. But I find no point in it, because the two are so closely connected in many cases and my opinion on what should happen to the guilty party in cases like these.. is a little 'medieval'.

Take your time, I personally am kinda busy re reading all the stuff on shin splints and how to deal with it.
 
AbdullahD said:
Take your time, I personally am kinda busy re reading all the stuff on shin splints and how to deal with it.

Foam rolling works wonders, and if you are getting them while wearing boots try skipping the lace holes around where the ankle is. I found that helped a lot on long rucks.
 
Since Muslims adapting and integrating is fairly often brought up by critics of Muslims and Islam. I am using that excuse to post these feel good articles and notes or statements and quotes (plus reasons I added down below).

But in truth, I am just proud of these guys and/or gals.

Turkish Muslim restaurant offers free Christmas dinner saying no one should eat alone.
https://www.google.ca/amp/s/m.mic.com/articles/amp/161230/a-muslim-owned-restaurant-is-hosting-free-christmas-dinners-for-the-homeless?client=ms-android-bell-ca

(Last year) Muslim chosen to host the Swedish Julvard.
https://www.google.ca/amp/www.csmonitor.com/layout/set/amphtml/World/Europe/2015/1223/Sweden-tries-something-new-for-annual-Christmas-TV-special-a-Muslim-host?client=ms-android-bell-ca

Now Imam Adam Kelwick, whose work includes drilling wells for people in africa and feeding the starving, encourages Mosques to follow the footsteps of Imam Abdullah Quilliam who used to host Christmas' for the poor. Ill put two links to his bio. Adam's endorsement can be found on Adam Kelwicks facebook bio.
http://imamsonline.com/blog/the-first-shaykh-of-the-british-isles-abdullah-quilliam/

http://www.baitulhikmah.com/2775-2/

Regarding saying 'merry christmas' as acceptable.
MuftiAbuLayth said:
Suffice it to say that to Allah alone belongs all priase.

Fatwa on saying 'Merry Christmas' to non-muslims.

In my understanding it is permissible to exchange such greetings based on the conventional context, demonstrating good character and maintaining good social relations. 
All of which are taught to us through the exemplary guidance of The Messenger of Allah (saw), His blessed interactions and His good ties with the non muslims around him.

This Fatwa is also the opinion of many contemporary and luminary Ulama worldwide inc:
Sh Yusuf Qardawi
Sh Abdullah bin Bayyah
Sh AbdusSattar Saeed (alAzhar)
Sh M Sayyid Dasuqi (Qatar)
Sh Mustafa Zarqa
Sh M Rasheed Rida
Sh Ahmad Sharbaasi

that said, I do however recognise that there are other scholars who disagree with the above stated and have their respective evidences to do so. Such Ulama are at liberty to hold their differing views.

We understand this diversity, breadth and tolerance to be from the magnificent and legendary teachings of our Deen; Al-Islam.

& absolute knowledge belongs to Allah alone.

Duas
Wasalam
Mufti

Exchanging gifts and saying merry Christmas is 100% fine a more detailed look.
http://www.nairaland.com/2823222/congratulating-christians-during-christmas-permissible

Yes, yes, I know some of you may be scratching your heads and asking who cares. I just want this information to be available to people in the armed forces. Or at least to you guys, I suspect.. some more 'extreme' Muslims may be declaring some things against 'kafr's' and I just want to be proactive not reactive ;)

It is my attempt to share my so-called christmas spirit. My wife crocheted hats, scarfs and blankets for her niece and nephew in northern alberta, I still need to sort out what I am getting people I need to buy for. We are eating a turkey that was slaughtered by a christian for our christmas dinner (yep, its halal), all in all I am just enjoying the season.

I do have more I could add regarding Muslims and Christmas.  But I feel this suffices.. plus it gives me an excuse to say...

Merry Christmas guys and God bless ya all.
God I like to talk

Abdullah

Ps Jarnhamar you never did reply lol
 
And to you also - and you are always worth reading.
 
And a Merry Christmas to you as well Abdullah.

Your insight has been appreciated.


Cheers
Larry
 
AbdullahD said:
This is valid. I can never know, can I? If I am not seeing it then I can believe it does not exist, even if it does. So yes, it 'could' be happening, but I am sticking to the guns and saying I highly doubt it. I have two convert male friends, one married a Pakistani lady and one Married an Egyptian lady and they have never brought anything up about this kind of stuff and they happen to be two of my closest friends with kids. My wife also has a girlfriend who reverted and married a Pakistani guy and so far we have heard nothing from that sister too. But things exist in every culture around the world, that a minority act upon that would disgust us all.. and a lot of cultures have their own specific traits that seem innocent to them, but foreign and weird to others.. so who knows, you may be right, but my guns are still blazing so to speak ;)

That's fair. I will stick to my own guns and respectfully suggest you (and other converts) have been blessed with a very manicured and theoretical version of Islam. I would venture maybe a bit akin to Hollywood actors and Scientology. They get exposed to the better parts and less the bad.

God guides who he wills and takes guidance away from who he wills, regarding Islam. Now being a Muslim in no way, shape or form, implies, hints or proves that a person is a good person. It just implies that a fellow is potentially following the most correct religion (this is just my opinion, I am not trying to force it on others).

I would in no way disown them, I would investigate why or what made them feel Islam was wrong and try to overcome those objections in time with love.

To me this statement reads 100% that *you* would be pushing *your* religion and what *you* feel on to your children, not taking into consideration or respect their free will or choices.


Can I put you into a very difficult position? By all means don't answer if it's uncomfortable.
But absolutely everything is up to God to decide, if he decides this is my families fate, then it is my families fate.

What if your child is a devote follower of Islam and one day they come up to you and with complete conviction and clarity tell you that Allah spoke to them and told them it's his will that they set off a bomb at some public place.

Do you accept this as Allah's will and what he decided for your child and family?




 
Jarnhamar said:
That's fair. I will stick to my own guns and respectfully suggest you (and other converts) have been blessed with a very manicured and theoretical version of Islam. I would venture maybe a bit akin to Hollywood actors and Scientology. They get exposed to the better parts and less the bad.

That is a fair enough position, I won't argue it aside from I feel my evidences more then support my arguement. Even then though if we could get extremists on to this style, it would be good and it is not just converts. A lot of guys from Russia/Western Europe historically follow this style I follow.

To me this statement reads 100% that *you* would be pushing *your* religion and what *you* feel on to your children, not taking into consideration or respect their free will or choices.

I will push religion, just as much as I push the mandatory Canadian education, or other such things. But I wont oppress them.


Can I put you into a very difficult position? By all means don't answer if it's uncomfortable.
What if your child is a devote follower of Islam and one day they come up to you and with complete conviction and clarity tell you that Allah spoke to them and told them it's his will that they set off a bomb at some public place.

Do you accept this as Allah's will and what he decided for your child and family?

Absolutely everything in my power will be used in stopping my child from doing it and I would be making sure they are prosecuted and put into psychiatric care.

I answered for you Jarn, but honestly, I feel you should have known lol

Abdullah
 
[quote author=AbdullahD]
I answered for you Jarn, but honestly, I feel you should have known lol[/quote]
Thanks Abdullah, I did know, I'm going somewhere with this ;)
Absolutely everything in my power will be used in stopping my child from doing it and I would be making sure they are prosecuted and put into psychiatric care.

But who are you to judge that your son didn't in fact receive a dream from Allah?  I've met a couple padres now who were NCOs or Officers who received a dream from God to become padres after years of service.  If God sends nice messages to people isn't it safe to say God can send mean ones too? (old testament is full of fire and brimstone stuff).

If your son said he received a message from Allah saying he should become a cleric I presume you would believe him and be supportive?
But when the message is a violent one [Quran 2:191-193 ] then he requires psychiatric care? Essentially whether to believe Allah's will or not depends on your own personal feelings about whats being said. So not exactly "absolutely everything is up to God to decide".
 
Jarnhamar said:
Thanks Abdullah, I did know, I'm going somewhere with this ;)

And you took an extremely interesting direction, one I did not anticipate.

But who are you to judge that your son didn't in fact receive a dream from Allah?

Interpretation of dreams and some of the more esoteric things involving dreams and 'divine' direction are well and truely outside my knowledge.

But Islam does not teach murdering innocents is acceptable, so a dream claiming 'Allah' told someone to do that is suspect
http://www.answering-christianity.com/no_murder.htm

And 'seeing' Allah is suspect too
http://islamqa.org/hanafi/daruliftaa/7952

But for the sake of your arguement and to put in a more widely accepted Islamic context, lets go with he saw Muhammad or Jesus or any other Muslim prophet and that vision encouraged this.

 
I've met a couple padres now who were NCOs or Officers who received a dream from God to become padres after years of service.  If God sends nice messages to people isn't it safe to say God can send mean ones too? (old testament is full of fire and brimstone stuff).

Now you force me to defend my Christian brethren, which I will do so to my fullest. But if I fall short a brother who is more intimately aware of Christianity can help. God/Allah/Yahwey/Creator is not full of fire and brimstone, nor is he a vindictive child like entity. Everything he did and does or allows is for a reason, it becomes difficult for us to understand his motives because our time lines of planning are vastly different and our end goals are vastly different. Then you add the length of time since these acts happened and it becomes harder to qualify wether they were good or bad acts, because we lack information those generations had.

It is like looking at WW2 and what the allied forces did to Germany, but not knowing what the Germans did to deserve our aggression. A short article talking about this subject. I think I found a christian source.. albeit the name the use for God seems to be jehovah... any rate here it is.

https://www.google.ca/amp/s/gotquestions.org/amp/Old-Testament-violence.html?client=ms-android-bell-ca

Now back to your point, if we dismiss the idea that God or his Prophets are evil and vindictive, then it becomes clear that they will not encourage people to evil and vindictive actions. Now please remember before you bring up the Machiavellian idea of the ends justifying the means, the Islamic idea of God does not allow for interpretation of the idea of the ends Justifying the Means in Islam. If a person is to be executed, imprisoned etc, he has to have done something to deserve it, it can not just be done to him.

If your son said he received a message from Allah saying he should become a cleric I presume you would believe him and be supportive?

I actually, become very.. lets say suspicious when people tell me they received 'guidance' in any way from 'Divine' beings or prophets. I find a lot of times that 'Divine' message, can be chalked up to stimuli in a persons life leading to his mind being active in that manner at night and they interpert as a divine message. When in actuality it was the brain processing the days or weeks information.

As a side subject dreams are an extremely fascinating subject in psychology. Well worth reading up on.. so Ill post a link ;) non-religious.
https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/what-is-dreaming-and-what-does-it-tell-us-about-memory-excerpt/

But when the message is a violent one [Quran 2:191-193 ] then he requires psychiatric care? Essentially whether to believe Allah's will or not depends on your own personal feelings about whats being said. So not exactly "absolutely everything is up to God to decide".

Well, if my child starts quoting single lines out of the Qur'an to me and trying to give me Tafsir.. my child and i will have a very hard talk.

For you a link ;) 2:190-195 is much better to read in isolation.
https://www.google.ca/amp/s/discover-the-truth.com/2014/08/12/quran-2191-and-kill-them-wherever-you-find-them-explained/amp/?client=ms-android-bell-ca

Now back to your point, if what is being said conforms to the established Sunnah of Allah and his prophet. Then that is one hurdle over came, but if it flies in the face of Allah and his Sunnah, then I know it is wrong out right. Nonetheless, if I ever have a conversation with my kids like this, I will be paying strict attention to everything I can.

For most things we are a product of our enviroments, but I do not discount divine encouragement per se. Because either a very long odds coincedence happened to me or it was divine encouraging, so I believe it exists. But I find a lot of cases of 'divine' encouraging can be logically explained.

Now as a little aside, I was thinking today about why so many people are critical of Islam and so many are not. I was thinking about what you said of converts not being "exposed" to certain versions and interpertations of Islam and I found that to be incorrect, look at all the material covered here in this thread and the other one, you can hardly say I am unaware of these things.. but I choose to follow evidence that discounts them.. whereas others choose to discount those evidences. It makes me wonder why some feel Islam or any particular issue is fine, but a person exposed to the same material can hold a countrary position. Kinda had me thinking about Initial exposure to Islam and confirmation bias and all those other neat things. I am driving around BC and Alberta these days, delivering cars for a wholesaler and I find I have far to much time to think and things like this pop up.

Any rate, I best get to bed. You take care, I honestly appreciate your conversation, I genuinely like learning your viewpoints. I feel they may help me in the future and although you are critical of Islam, I do not find you to be a bigot or rascist. I find you or at least this persona of you to be quite respectable.. amazing feat on the internet lol

Abdullah
 
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