Hello everyone,
i'm an 18 year old kid a couple months out of high school here in Toronto if that helps. Will try my best not to bore anyone with my life story, just wanna make a few things clear. I wanna start by saying a couple things first. I haven't done much my whole life. My parents who are immigrants never really enrolled me into sports and activities like other kids. I later on start gaming and spent a lot of my time gaming and spending too much time on the computer and all that. Now that i'm out of high school, I feel incomplete. People have crisis at mid point of their lives, and I think i'm having one right now (to a lesser degree). Haven't been able to find a job since being out of school, despite applying to many places and coming out with not even a callback. Also, not knowing what I wanted to do in high school has further delayed my plans for college for at least another year.
The feeling of waking up everyday and just doing nothing productive can really bring your spirits down. I feel sort of lost for a lack of a better word. I'm now looking at the military in a couple ways, as in what can I get out of such an experience. What can it offer me in terms of changing me for the better, good life lessons, and everything related. Not necessarily to say that I served in the army, but to have such a thing as that under my belt and thinking back on it, would it be generally a good thing? The camaraderie, the brotherhood(?) is something i'd definitely enjoy.
Now as I've said, i'm going to be out of school for at least another year. Not taking a grade 12 math course is essentially the reason why i'm not in college. Now i'm really interested in working with my hands and skilled trades looks like the way to go, for many reasons. So I was looking around on the Forces website, and seen that an in demand military job is a refrigeration mechanic, something that I have been wanting to get into for the last little while.
So, if I chose the option of joining the military, what would be the best way to approach it? Is it something you should do before college, or after? How does doing college and serving in the forces work?
I know there's other questions that I wanted to ask, so I guess i'll post them when they come to mind.
Was a long read, so thank you for taking the time to help a kid looking for some purpose

i'm an 18 year old kid a couple months out of high school here in Toronto if that helps. Will try my best not to bore anyone with my life story, just wanna make a few things clear. I wanna start by saying a couple things first. I haven't done much my whole life. My parents who are immigrants never really enrolled me into sports and activities like other kids. I later on start gaming and spent a lot of my time gaming and spending too much time on the computer and all that. Now that i'm out of high school, I feel incomplete. People have crisis at mid point of their lives, and I think i'm having one right now (to a lesser degree). Haven't been able to find a job since being out of school, despite applying to many places and coming out with not even a callback. Also, not knowing what I wanted to do in high school has further delayed my plans for college for at least another year.
The feeling of waking up everyday and just doing nothing productive can really bring your spirits down. I feel sort of lost for a lack of a better word. I'm now looking at the military in a couple ways, as in what can I get out of such an experience. What can it offer me in terms of changing me for the better, good life lessons, and everything related. Not necessarily to say that I served in the army, but to have such a thing as that under my belt and thinking back on it, would it be generally a good thing? The camaraderie, the brotherhood(?) is something i'd definitely enjoy.
Now as I've said, i'm going to be out of school for at least another year. Not taking a grade 12 math course is essentially the reason why i'm not in college. Now i'm really interested in working with my hands and skilled trades looks like the way to go, for many reasons. So I was looking around on the Forces website, and seen that an in demand military job is a refrigeration mechanic, something that I have been wanting to get into for the last little while.
So, if I chose the option of joining the military, what would be the best way to approach it? Is it something you should do before college, or after? How does doing college and serving in the forces work?
I know there's other questions that I wanted to ask, so I guess i'll post them when they come to mind.
Was a long read, so thank you for taking the time to help a kid looking for some purpose

