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That assumes that the kids and grandkids have the ability and understanding not to piss away the inheritances that their parents and grandparents 'might' leave them. I see little across my kids inner and outer friends circle that leads me to believe that they have any understanding of 'delayed gratification' or 'living within or under their means.'There is a divergence that needs to happen. At some point we have to focus on the future of this country.
Arguably this is the big sacrifice that the boomers may be forced/asked to make. Which its less entitlement to their entitlements and more how can they leave a better country for their kids, grandkids ect ect ect.
We've already told our kids, 20yr and 18yr, not expect much of a pot of gold awaiting them when my wife and I pass. We've made it clear to them that our job was to feed them, educate them and to provide them with a safe and loving environment so that they will be ready to tackle the world and whatever comes their way. We will not be paying for a lifestyle that they see on Instagram or TikTok, our parents gave us the same that we gave you, its up to you to make your own way, and if that means my kids leave Canada for better opportunities elsewhere, so be it. Our retirement plans focus on running down our assets to pretty much zero by the time we fulfill the actuary tables. All that will be left is the house, so they will receive something substantial but it certainly won't be the pot of gold that my wife and I look to spend on our retirement.
