Pieman said:
I see your point. Let's suppose we were able to intervene and prevent it from happening. I believe that as a parent I would want to give the child the best shot possible. I can't imagine the complications and emotional distress (socially accepted or not) presents to a person going through such an identity crisis. Life is tough enough. So in all honesty, I would employ that intervention without hesitation. I personally don't buy into accepting 'fate' when you actually have the ability to control something.
I think you are correct on some levels in that diversity within a population is a good thing. However, certain attributes are going to represent some very serious disadvantages and challenges that would otherwise not be there. So, I think if it is an option then it really is the responsible thing to give someone the best chance for success as possible....right now it's not actually an option, so social acceptance is the best approach for sure.
I agree to an extent. To be honest, If I knew my child would have this issue and I could correct it..I probably would. Guess I am a hypocrite.
Now back to the point, lets say we both do it and hundred or thousands of other do it as well. That doesnt mean this issue dissappears, it would most likely be listed as an elective process/surgery and as always some parents would elect not to do it. Thus in reality giving the children a double disadvantage if the current culture doesnt change, being;
1-Have the wiring of A in a B body and
2-The stigma of having parents who didnt "correct" this issue.
Now I am not a fate-ist or whatever they are called, I do believe that people should do everything in their power to enhance or increase their comfort and happiness in life. But some things just happen. In an ideal world, no one would ostracize a person for how they were born. Reality though is a tough thing sometimes as the rates of suicide and depression show in the trans community amongst others, it is hard to cope.
And who are we to decide what would make a person happy, I am as a straight heterosexual non trans male deciding what a "xyz" person would be happy with? Wasn't it just a few short years ago the fight for homosexuality was being fought? Wasn't the cliche position that all the homosexual people would be happy as a straight person and this was just a phase? We as a society and a culture have been evolving past this and instead of thinking Transgender people need to be cured or fixed, before they express a desire to do so we should try to accept them. Because lets face it, maybe some people are happier living as X in a Y body (albeit most evidence shows the opposite).
So we do have the medical technology to halfways correct the issue in this day and age, and by god we have the brains so lets fight for social acceptance and when this other technology becomes available we can revisit this talk. I am not saying this is the right choice, I am just arguing for it. If anything see this position of mine as an arguement for all minorities to get sufficient social and emotional support so that the depression and suicide rates go to 0.
Life is tough, agreed. But lets develop proper thought processes so our kids can cope with emotional trauma. We all face trials in life, we cant protect our kids from all of them... sorry I maybe lost the point lol
A meandering
Abdullah
p.s Jarnhammer I saw your post and feel I have adequately addressed it in the other thread regarding people who leave Islam. Furthermore I dont wish to derail this thread, so thats why I didnt respond.