You sound like my kids, R5. And I don't say that derogatorally.
My personal point of inflection is 1972. I figure that is when the future was stolen.
Until that date we were going to space, we were building free energy for everyone with reactors, the green revolution was using science to modify crops and stop famines, cities and rivers were getting cleaner, we were playing with cars and boats, aircraft and hovercraft.
And then along came the Club of Rome and Ehrlichs Population Bomb to convince us we were all evil and needed to stop reproducing in order to save the planet. We went from living in a forgiving world that tolerated experimentation to a limited world that demanded regimentation and control.
We were required to submit to authority to save us all
Only thing is, only the West got the memo. And the only free society on the planet became as authoritarian as the rest.
That and ... you know... the Oil Crisis, Fiat currency, and Reganomics.
A lot of the "Post War Golden Age" from 1945 to 1970 was based on the economic security of government regulation. Ofcourse, those facts tend to be glossed over by the far right crowd that want to LARP Leave it To Beaver.
Even the 80s and 90s nostalgia "boom" I grew up in was financed heavily by debt and selling off assets for temporary relief. Everything fell the pieces in the early oughts between 9/11 and the Housing Crash; but the path to the middle class was always paved with a University Degree and a fictional job that was outsourced years prior.
I was funneled into the university or bust route by my father. I flatly refused. I was too immature to make a 45K investment in something I had no idea if I wanted to pursue for my entire life.
I joined the CAF out of spite and somehow, 20ish years later; I'm an Officer, I have a house in the suburbs, 4 kids, and a meager amount of money to spend on things I want. The difference is, I know my journey is an anomaly and I have hooped a few horseshoes along the way.
As for kids not wanting to join, unless they have to; that is this generation and the way they view the world. They have known nothing but global conflict, market instability, pandemics, climate emergencies, and all of it happening in real time on a screen in front of them. They have zero concept of "hope" or planning for the future: they don't feel like they have anything to look forward to.
If the CAF wants to be the employer of choice for these kids, they need to provide immediate benefit; not an education benefit after 8 years or a pension at an eyewatering 25 years.
Offer them good pay, a decent place to live, adventure, and a chance to do cool shit they can put on Instagram. Expect theyre going to fuck off in 5 to 7 years. Make those 5-7 years mean something and set them up to be successful in society. They will encourage others to be part of the mob just by seeing how much it worked out for them.