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Hi guys, 1st post here. I have a very embarrassing situation I'm in and would really appreciate it if I could get some feedback. So, Here goes:
When I was 13 years old I moved to a new province to live with my father, His new wife and my 2 half sisters. Needless to say, It didn't go so well. Long story short, I was charged with sexual assault for taking a game too far with my sisters, I was charged when I was 14. I went to counseling for 2 years after that and was on probation until I was 16. But now I am 27 years old, And want to join the Canadian Forces. I know that once I apply to the CF they will do a background check and discover this. Not that I would make any attempt to hide it, And am completely willing to discuss this with whom it may concern.
So my question is this: Will this completely ruin any chance I have of employment? Will the Cf take into consideration that the incident took place around 13 years ago? That i was just a boy when this happened and in no way what so ever reflects the man I've become? Is my position on this even defendable? Or did I ruin my life 13 years ago because I was an idiot then?
Thank you for taking the time to read this. And please feel free not to tear me down because of this, This is actually the first time I've shared this with anyone outside of the legal system since when I was a boy. I really would have only earned my self respect once I've become a proud member of the Canadian Forces. I just want to know if that goal is obtainable in this lifetime.
When I was 13 years old I moved to a new province to live with my father, His new wife and my 2 half sisters. Needless to say, It didn't go so well. Long story short, I was charged with sexual assault for taking a game too far with my sisters, I was charged when I was 14. I went to counseling for 2 years after that and was on probation until I was 16. But now I am 27 years old, And want to join the Canadian Forces. I know that once I apply to the CF they will do a background check and discover this. Not that I would make any attempt to hide it, And am completely willing to discuss this with whom it may concern.
So my question is this: Will this completely ruin any chance I have of employment? Will the Cf take into consideration that the incident took place around 13 years ago? That i was just a boy when this happened and in no way what so ever reflects the man I've become? Is my position on this even defendable? Or did I ruin my life 13 years ago because I was an idiot then?
Thank you for taking the time to read this. And please feel free not to tear me down because of this, This is actually the first time I've shared this with anyone outside of the legal system since when I was a boy. I really would have only earned my self respect once I've become a proud member of the Canadian Forces. I just want to know if that goal is obtainable in this lifetime.
